@handsome_homebuyer: People think a push present is jewelry or something flashy… Wrong. The best thing you can get is help. Hiring a doula and how it has literally kept us sane—sleep, support, guidance… all the stuff no one prepares you for. Most people just wing it and burn out fast. Having someone there who knows exactly what to do changes everything. If you’re having a baby soon, look into it—The Devoted Village is who we use.