@melissadivaristhompson: What destroys more relationships than cheating or money? The way you speak to each other when you’re angry. Your partner’s nervous system remembers what it felt like to be attacked by the person who’s supposed to be their safe place. Ask each other: “When we argue, what’s the thing I do that hurts you most? And what do you need from me instead?” Write it down. Don’t debate it. Then commit to doing better. The strength of your relationship isn’t measured by how much you agree. It’s measured by whether you can disagree without tearing each other apart. 💛 This information is for psychoeducational purposes only and not to be misconstrued as therapy. #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyRelationships #ConflictResolution #CouplesTherapist

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bunnylopside
bunnylopsided :
is it possible to recover from that
2026-04-09 07:15:09
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kawhi302
Kdee :
It's so tiring being with someone who lacks emotional intelligence.
2026-03-30 23:51:51
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msjd1411
💜🦋Dawn🦋💜 :
I'm trying to resolve the issue and he fights to win.
2026-03-23 14:39:04
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nightmim.e
Kaylabayla :3 :
Me and my bf have been together and living together for for 4 years and we have never called either names or yelled at eachother. We talk and admit when we’re being annoying. And say how much we love eachother after we talk. Then we hang out like normal. I’m so greatful
2026-03-28 10:01:38
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lakitashundrel
LakitaShundrel :
It’s physically, mentally, emotionally draining
2026-05-16 15:10:46
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katieyoung030
Katie Young :
What do I do when I ask “how can I do better?” And he walks away
2026-04-09 22:48:00
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ana_mofa
AnaM :
I have the issue that he applies the silent treatment like if I was a child. It reminds me of my mom (narcissist) anything and would be silent and eye rolling for days. I opted to go silent if anything and I’m sure he is thinking ohhh we are doing great but in reality I just feel like I’m checking out slowly.
2026-03-31 21:20:08
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mizwaaa
Neraia :
We dont even fight because he ignores me emotionally lol
2026-04-13 08:34:52
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rocksand532
Rocksand53 :
Been together with my hubby for 33 yrs… we have NEVER name called, or cussed each other out…😊
2026-04-20 18:49:29
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pokeyrinw
Sarina :
Why is it always about winning? What if it's about being heard?
2026-08-06 13:37:13
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brigitte_nicole72
Brigitte Wilhite :
I have been so at fault for arguing to win and to prove my point I can see it now. i need to get so much better at really listening.And changing my perspective.
2026-05-01 15:46:58
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tomorrow2353
Honda Blue 53 :
Silent treatment right now. I’m trying to figure out myself right now. Our argument was me not agreeing with her actions lately. She can say hurtful things afterwards
2026-04-11 16:19:13
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carbonabeauty
Ahhlya :
My biggest problem 😭 so use to toxic and trying to unlearn it
2026-03-27 01:47:05
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cecilial0524
CeciliaL :
Life is short. Pick and choose fights and resolve it right there
2026-03-23 14:35:04
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brenthurst
brenthurst :
Contempt
2026-04-13 11:54:35
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user4690545965493
Amberzonian :
Omg this is so spot on !!! I don’t argue with my husband to win at all! But I feel like he might . He will always say after going back and forth okay you win then . I always tell him I don’t want to win I want to help our relationship. He also always think when we don’t agree on something that it’s a fight and that’s not okay . I try telling him that we are not always going to agree and it’s healthy to communicate about those things .
2026-04-14 15:36:25
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perezgold9
Perez Gold :
this ended my four years commitment 😏
2026-04-12 17:26:10
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_rachytalz1
_rachytalz1 :
Naaaaah im not interested in that id rather walk away. Its too late and so exhausted
2026-04-06 17:34:24
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cakelover642
Cake Girly :
We never argue because I can’t share my feelings so I don’t try . A win is a win
2026-04-01 03:50:47
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xirxyz
XX :
I broke up with him for this exact reason
2026-04-04 23:17:37
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mcgo0094
Alison K :
How about when they don’t speak?? Stonewalling…escaping to “work” for 14+ hours…it’s happened so often that I don’t even care anymore.
2026-05-02 17:48:02
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ouhhlalaaa
Paris Sanchez :
Thank you
2026-04-10 16:17:03
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bishisaidwtfisaid
maybe that girl :
It’s not what you say it’s how you say it really
2026-03-25 20:06:07
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carolburke23
carolburke23 :
Truth.
2026-03-23 13:33:42
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honkaistarjail
Stelle :
I roll over and give up and get walked on-
2026-03-23 13:36:59
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