TheRealNicCoy
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Monday 23 March 2026 15:26:34 GMT
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JAY :
You’re grieving who you thought you were to them. Wow…absolutely
2026-03-23 16:06:49
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Fancy Pants 🇨🇦 :
I definitely stayed longer than I should have
2026-03-23 18:18:04
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Deanna Pino :
Yes!!!! Walked away from a 21y marriage and it was the hardest and most necessary thing I’ve ever done
2026-03-24 02:11:54
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Ellieofdenmark :
The total loss of trust in people 💔💔💔
2026-03-23 16:29:28
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Zash 🇨🇦 :
"You're grieving who you thought they were." It's actually like this because when I'm near them, I disassociate forgiving so easily. But when they've left, I am back in reality, angry and awake to what's happening
2026-03-23 16:22:32
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KimmyAmbrose :
how do you navigate a narcissist parent?
2026-03-23 16:57:00
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NinaGurl :
Took me 15 of 20 years. I hate myself for it
2026-03-23 23:51:30
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vi_2798 :
Can you make more content about narcissistic partners?
2026-03-24 08:11:30
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D :
4 years for me and I honestly don’t know how I’m still standing.
2026-03-24 02:00:15
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Vanessa :
Lots of red flags, but when it finally clicked, I was horrified. It was like that scene in Labyrinth when Sara is dreamy in the ballroom, dancing with Jareth, but then it all falls apart in an instant. I felt a shift in my nervous system-like ice flowing through my body, starting at my head. It was the weirdest thing.
2026-03-25 12:37:19
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Grumble of 5 :
Yes, the cognitive dissonance is the challenging part for me.
2026-03-23 18:46:19
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Shalin Sandhu 🇲🇾 :
5 and going 6 years and I still can’t leave. I so want to leave but I feel stuck.
2026-03-24 00:34:46
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shannakathleen :
why do people try to manipulate a connection they just could have had
2026-03-24 03:44:34
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Susika :
thank you. i only realized it after i broke up with him. my gosh, that man hated me. and he masked it as love.
2026-03-23 20:06:29
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Louise Hoffmann 🎨 :
thanks for sharing. I'm still tired of 'why didn't she just leave' comments in general
2026-03-24 11:23:18
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forevermilo17 :
Thank you for this
2026-03-23 21:21:57
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Susan :
Forgive YOURSELF & the person you were when you fell for their fake BS 😁
2026-03-24 00:54:38
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April_MSN,RN❤️ :
Going through this right now 💔
2026-03-24 01:53:56
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Diana Mar :
Mi amor para todos los que hemos pasado por esto
2026-03-23 20:09:08
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Kristina :
yes like an entire entity gone. yes ive heard it as grieving and I gotta say im not a fan. Ive already lost so much.
2026-03-23 20:04:54
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Mr.RadX :
That was the hardest thing to listen to… thank you.. seriously thank you.
2026-03-24 09:47:19
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highsteelcowboy :
I needed to hear that
2026-03-24 02:19:29
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Esther :
The intermitemt reward is so real. In the beginning he love bombed me so hard. I gave him absolutely everything. Then one day he just left. I lost everything.
2026-03-28 14:21:35
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REVfit Ministries - REV40 :
That’s the HARD part. Grieving who you thought YOU were to them was VIOLENT to ones ego! I HAD constantly remind my self to to FLIP it (besides FOR 11mo initiating NO CONTACT, NEVER BEGGED, NEVER CHASED, AND BLOCKED NUMEROUS BURNER ACCOUNTS-TALK ABOUT INTERMITTENT REINFORCEMENTS HELL AND THE DETOX from being bombarded with hoovering) to “WHAT are YOU getting out of THIS relationship opportunity that YOU CHOSE TO ENTER?! I had to say this over and over to myself when my mind wanted to take me back to the ILLUSION(s) of WHAT WAS VS WHAT IS.
2026-03-23 20:41:46
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Justine ✨🤍🙌 :
That’s real good and so right!
2026-03-23 21:53:03
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