@mahin.kohne: Here’s how: 1. Take a piece of paper and write this sentence: “What did this experience give me that I get to keep?” 2. List everything you gained. Clarity about what you need. Standards you didn’t have before. Patterns you can now see. Strength you didn’t know you had. 3. This converts the experience from a loss into a return. And when the brain recognizes a return… it stops trying to recover it through the person. Because the investment is no longer open. It’s closed. #relationshiptips