@expressyourselfblackman: Black man, if you keep blaming everything on her, you never give yourself a reason to grow. You just carry the same habits into the next situation and wonder why nothing changes. Look at what you ignored, what you allowed, and how you showed up. That’s where the shift happens. Because if you don’t face yourself, you’ll keep running into the same outcomes, just with different people. #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #fyp #BlackTikTok