randolphmatthewspresence
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Zinnysoftlife🌸 :
This is emotional intelligence that alot of people don’t have unfortunately
2026-03-25 20:03:25
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Sandy :
Jumping straight into solution/advice mode is dismissive
2026-03-30 03:51:29
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imjustthatgal :
i will work on this.. i have this mindset of “don’t come to me if you’re not ready to do something about it” and maybe that’s my problem!
2026-03-29 23:39:22
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Natacha :
Okay I’m learning to shut up
2026-03-29 16:04:10
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Lady Catherine :
Sometimes people just need a cup of tea and a hug ☕️
2026-03-24 12:47:41
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Leo :
Unsolicited advice is toxic .
2026-03-30 13:23:20
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t.furze :
Still practicing the art of not giving unsolicited advice. The most simple yet intentional way to approach is just by asking, “would you like advice or comfort?” It really goes a long way in being attentive in others’ vulnerability
2026-03-26 00:58:45
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RAiR🌬️ :
Yes it sounds like judgment instead of support
2026-03-30 17:46:41
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el_bethhairline :
I’m in church,someone pls bring me back here
2026-03-29 12:26:49
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DivineFeminine333 :
My son taught me this. He said, “I just need someone to LISTEN!! Please stop trying to tell me what to do! Just listen to what I’m feeling Mom!” A priceless moment and a lesson learned👁️
2026-03-30 11:27:11
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Phongozana J 🫧💸 :
I find it so hard to do this 😭😭😭 I ALWAYS want to fix people's problems I feel so useless if I don't. Gotta work on that QUICK yho😭
2026-03-29 11:48:35
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cosmicxraven :
Trying my hardest to stop giving unsolicited advice. 🙏🏾
2026-03-30 11:05:04
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WamaZizi :
True even when someone has just lost a loved one
2026-03-29 13:13:10
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Mirrah :
Comfort instead of solutions!
2026-03-29 23:05:21
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EVERYWOMAN28🇺🇸 :
Give people the respect by understanding they are the expert on themselves. Respect and trust that they know how to resolve their issues. Give up thinking you know what the solution is for them. Be available to listen and hold space for them.
2026-03-30 11:44:45
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She wolf :
I find it so hard as a problem solver not to try and jump in with solutions because I want to fix the source of their pain. I need to be better at just sitting and listening.
2026-03-24 13:43:08
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Oyinda🎀🧚🏾♀️ :
Just listening can go a long way
2026-03-28 16:54:38
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TheQueen :
When someone is overwhelmed, they are in survival mode and cannot think clearly. A calm, nonjudgmental presence helps them feel safe, while advice can wait until they are ready to think again.
2026-03-29 22:32:54
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SL :
Honestly like just listen
2026-03-25 16:58:05
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Raissa Yufanyi :
This emotional intelligence!
2026-03-28 22:44:27
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O0yink :
My new rules. Keeping shit and not giving advice
2026-03-27 02:50:11
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Christian JaLon :
This kind of emotional intelligence is found in humility. 🩵
2026-03-29 20:05:19
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hannahlfetter2 :
That is their problem. Come to me when you want to talk about problems AND solutions. We are not their therapists. Don’t silence yourself ❤️
2026-03-30 16:32:42
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Char ⭐️ :
That’s the one
2026-04-01 09:40:02
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Sandra :
Most people are stuck in a constant cycle of bad choices, and babysitting them doesn’t help.
2026-03-30 12:32:07
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