@cayydences:

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Thank god u’re on time. He's such a good guy but I'm here overthinking everything. To my sweet baby, I'm so sorry. U mean so much to me and I'm afraid of losing you. I love you so much I'm working on myself to be better.

Aries🫧 :

"You are so used to the hot & cold, you are so used to the push & pull.” well damn you got me there…

lia :

oh no.. too late 😔

Tarah B. Lajoie :

This is actually such underrated advice 😅 I once had a really peaceful relationship and somehow I still managed to overthink everything and create problems that weren’t even there. I kept questioning his feelings and pushing for drama without realizing it. I felt so stupid after it ended. Later I started reading this book called 69 Secrets of Love by Selena Skye and it helped me understand why we sometimes sabotage calm love. That book honestly changed how I show up in relationships. Feels like a secret nobody talks about.

Laynni :

I’ve been called out.

🌚 :

my partner is a really calm and patient guy, which i appreciate. but sometimes he’s too calm that it feels nonchalant/uninterested. i’m conflicted because idk if it’s peacefulness or stagnation. idk if he’s just calm and patient or if he’s at the point where he doesn’t wanna try to put effort in the relationship anymore because he already has me. idk what to do.

𝓙𝓮𝓼𝓼𝓲🖤 :

Okay I get it FYP don't ruin my relationship with him. I got it

Dus :

I wish I knew this before. I had a stable and peaceful man in my life. It felt strange and came as a sock, I pushed him away. Now I look for him everywhere and can't let go 😢

Q :

toshi 🦚 :

Omg you’re onto something

YUKI 🎤🇸🇬 :

I ended a peaceful rs with a good guy recently because I was never physically and emotionally attracted to him, and I couldn’t bring myself to even after 2.5 years. I suppressed the thought of breaking up and held on to him because I thought it’s just me being “self destructive”. I do deserve a peaceful rs, but he also deserves someone who genuinely loves him back.

tehaismedanlover :

mmm ok im sorry

𖣂Nelᛑᛗᛛ :

being bored = healthy. there's no conflict, there's no toxicity, just flow state you get used to and you mistake it for boredom, when really you're just more comfortable than you've ever been

Lumia :

you were a year late bro

aliciacreger :

When I was a kid, silence meant danger.

hema03kum :

Dang I feel really called out right now 🥹

einnib :

well why didn't u tell me this earlier

Fox :

He talked to me about this the other day and told me to chill, he’s not going anywhere and I’m safe with him. That I needed to love and trust him more than my anxiety.. and honestly? Hearing him say that worked. I snapped outta my overthinking and went “Oh.. you’re right.” Anyways it’s been a few days and I’m still okay🥰✌🏼❤️

Namakula Aishah 🦋🦋 :

maksuruhbuangsampah :

BRO IM IN THE MIDDLE OF SELF SABOTAGING THANK YOU FOR THE WAKE UP CALLLL

𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒂 ༊·˚ :

what if he doesn't celebrate my bday for 6 years?

ᑲrіᥲᥒᥒᥲ♡ :

it to late bro 😭 we both hurt each and to day it happened again with one my best friend and a close friend