sara Beth
Region: US
Tuesday 24 March 2026 18:55:57 GMT
113641
3957
170
78
Music
Download
Comments
522 twg :
That’s just the two you know about
2026-03-24 21:58:18
366
219 street cars :
It happened more then twice
2026-03-25 11:18:59
208
Ferne Robinson :
Please PLEASE hear me when I say this. This has NOTHING to do WITH YOU. This has everything to do with him. You are beautiful, kind, caring, loving and all the things. This is not on you. This is not your burden. Just incase you needed to hear this.
2026-03-25 20:21:43
74
The Lantern Collective :
The one thing that I heard I heard a lot, but I don’t know if anyone else commented on this so I will address the boundary thing for you because that is so important moving forward into any kind of relationship so a boundary is not for them. A boundary is not for them to respect a boundary is for you to respect yourself so if you say, I don’t want you to do this right that’s not necessarily a boundary that is a request so a boundary is if you choose to do this so you’re still giving them a choice so if you still choose to do this, then I will do that or I will do this and then you have to follow through because otherwise you’re teaching them or showing them. They can do whatever they want and there are no consequences so we have to be really careful when we say we’re setting a boundary, right so a boundary is if you choose to do this then I’m going to do this and you can articulate that to them or you can just show them by your behavior. I’m doing a talk to text right now so hopefully this came across if you have more questions just reach out to me.
2026-03-25 00:23:34
31
LeeLee :
girl I'm on affair #3 . I just literally can't afford to live on my own. I want this marriage to end but it's either stay in this horrendous living hell or not have enough money for food and shelter for me and my children. and yes. I have multiple jobs but live in the second most expensive city in Canada. why don't I move to somewhere cheaper? I have no savings , living pay check to pay check and can't just quit my jobs and afford moving expenses and first and last months rent. I've thought about every single possible scenario trust me . it's all I think about all day long every single day
2026-05-13 10:33:49
16
Louise :
i hear you and understand. Don't be so hard on yourself please. This is not your fault. Put your crown back on. YOU got this.
2026-03-24 19:33:09
93
IveBeenKnotty💜💜 :
I’m sorry you went through all of this but all of the “boundaries” you set were were more of rules saying what he could or couldn’t do, rather than what you would accept.
2026-03-24 21:02:40
35
MannyThoughts :
There’s no workbook on how to deal with someone betraying you. Don’t be hard on yourself.
2026-03-24 19:38:18
78
d.k.kgggg3 :
It’s not all gloom and doom. There is someone out there that is going to love you the way you deserve to be Loved and be loyal on top of it!
2026-03-24 21:30:31
43
Renee :
I could not live wondering everyday wondering if he’s cheating or not. I also couldn’t forget the affair.
2026-03-26 18:45:09
33
Abu Dhabi :
The moral of the story for others is: focus on the reality, not the fantasy
2026-03-27 14:31:30
10
tyvm.paper.goods :
Asking for transparency isn’t about control. It’s about him re-establishing trust ♥️
2026-03-24 20:31:43
31
AnnB :
How horrible having to worry about your husband having female employees. I’m sorry you went through that.
2026-03-24 23:53:00
25
Jimmytruth2 :
Cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone you claim to love. I loved my wife so much and when she cheated it ruined me. I still can’t trust anyone to this day 12 years later.
2026-03-27 13:12:44
29
loren.obrien :
It’s hard as a therapist bc we are taught not to tell people exactly what to do (say for example when ur husband crossed ur boundaries etc), but I am very sorry that ur therapist was not able to help u hold those boundaries and understand what felt good and safe for u
2026-03-25 13:16:12
12
Tracie Parisi 🇦🇺 :
Mine has done a lot of work and is going deep. All the childhood stuff, he recognises his need for outside validation and done a bunch of work but I haven’t healed yet and my own healing isn’t happening. I thought I could heal but I’m struggling. He is doing the work but I just struggle.
2026-04-03 22:28:15
5
peter.w.hunter :
I think it was healthy to try couples therapy after the first affair as a means to try and cope, but it’s almost impossible to make sense of. You either have the ability to cheat or you don’t, one or the other.
2026-03-25 02:50:42
19
Kelly Baxter :
Sorry that you experienced this betrayal but I hope you are able to heal from this and you’re not blaming yourself for his affair ❤️❤️❤️
2026-03-24 21:21:07
16
KukiPhill :
A real burden off your back! You deserve a better person by your side. Everything will be fine. Sending prayers!
2026-03-24 23:12:56
14
Anita Fritz Cory :
our situations are so very similar. 1st affair, what counseling focused on, and how he didnt own up, take responsibility for himself, little honesty / full disclosure, etc. 7 yrs later he reached out to his AP again, they picked up again, he divorced me ( no conversation 🙄) right before our 30th anniversary, and married her 4 months after the divorce was final. I wish I would've left him years ago. ugh.
2026-03-25 14:33:57
5
okay.okay011 :
Ugh. Couples counseling has turned out to be a trauma for me. That highlights how much I trusted everyone else but myself. Hindsight will always just suck. Even now that I’m healed/healing- hindsight sucks.
2026-03-25 21:49:15
5
Peaceful :
Hind sight is 20-20. You did the best you could at that point. We can all say what we would do but we really don’t know until we are in it. You did what you thought was best for your marriage at that time!
2026-03-25 03:45:12
6
Kory Michalicek :
observing that from your perspective The self-reflection in yourself must have been just incredible weight upon you internally. it's really not even about to act in my purview it's about everything that surrounded the act. self-reflection is a mountain to climb.
2026-03-24 22:53:58
5
Fanndr :
You are one good person…, your explanations are so honest and direct. I am honored to be on your side…. This was just awful…. I’m glad you seem to have regained a lot of your strength & spirit. This platform is a great outlet for your story…. I’m so invested in you being ok.
2026-03-25 00:59:38
28
Anna 🇩🇰 :
When you have to set up boundaries like this it’s already over..
2026-06-06 10:44:15
1
To see more videos from user @sbiery, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
