@mindpower10x: The real reason attraction disappears in a relationship Love and attraction are not the same, and that’s what Tony Robbins breaks down in this clip. He explains how relationships often lose passion even when both partners care deeply for each other. Comfort and similarity can build love, but without the natural differences in energy between partners the spark begins to fade. He also dives into the emotional side of connection. Feminine energy thrives when it feels seen, safe, and understood, while masculine energy focuses on solving problems and taking action. When these needs aren’t met, even a solid relationship can feel distant and intimacy starts slipping away.