I have made peace with the mindset it’s not my responsibility to discipline and structure a kid that isn’t mine.
2026-03-26 22:59:44
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The1Legend :
Step dad truth as well. I am always seen as the “not fun” person.
2026-03-27 14:39:17
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Leny :
same rules for all the kids,
2026-03-26 18:13:18
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Nena2911 :
Some of us who stepped up just want successful Independent humans to reflect how vested we were when we …stepped up ✨✨✨
2026-03-27 01:47:27
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Jake :
Not true it’s not what you say it’s how you say it
2026-03-25 22:23:39
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kalynnlstanley :
In all honesty being a step parent is hard. No matter what you do they do not view you like they do their parents. It’s very exhausting and emotionally hard. This has just been my experience.
2026-03-28 21:54:29
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EBIEyourBARIcousin :
Yes. Sometimes because you’re not the biological parent you’ll be seen as the “mean” one. But me…I don’t care! My biological and non biological children are treated the same. I may be a little harder on my daughter because she’s mine. But do what we say and respect us and this house! Do what your mom allows over there! But here, we run this! We will show you all how to be respectful decent humans.
2026-04-20 17:10:36
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Rosanna Gomez :
Silent repost
2026-03-26 13:17:33
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Cando :
Kids need and WANT boundaries.
2026-03-25 21:53:06
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Lizzzzard :
again, all the responsibilities and no authority. I'm done
2026-03-27 04:40:00
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Jane :
💯 And the other house has none on purpose.
2026-03-26 21:44:35
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Dana Curtis :
Currently in this situation right now and it is so hard
2026-03-28 02:23:36
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Annette :
As a mom and foster mom , this is something I hear all the time that I’m to controlling but then I see how other kids act in public and how parent can’t control their children the child control the parent . I can careless what they think .
2026-03-26 18:25:04
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🎶🎤 MEGAN 🎻🎹 :
my stepmother treated me better than my biological mother. I love ❤️my stepmother!!
2026-03-27 02:48:43
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C7043 :
Authority must be established it gives structure discipline and provides a safe loving environment a child craves!!! Prevents anxious children 🥰
2026-03-26 16:03:19
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🤎 Dani 🤎 :
Louder for the ones in back please! 🗣 📣👏
2026-03-26 04:31:31
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Fred Wunsch :
as long as all the rules apply to EVERYONE
2026-03-26 17:15:50
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Zabina Perez :
SILENT REPOST!
2026-03-26 04:40:16
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Beatriceelena🌻 :
Wow so true I’m hated because we shower and keep things in order around here
2026-03-30 02:25:27
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Khyla M | Travel & Lifestyle :
we need a group chat i can't talk here 😭
2026-04-22 17:58:39
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Pinche Cesi :
thiiiiiisssss!!!!!!!
2026-03-28 01:05:18
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Aracast :
im and just learning this! it's a daily battle, that is affecting my marriage.
2026-03-28 15:07:32
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Misti Franklin :
definitely not. Control looks and feels like control. Arbitrary rules not being modeled by adults. Punishments that teach submission to authority instead of remediation and understanding. One way communication. All control
2026-03-28 02:49:44
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eealvarez17 :
Our house has all the same rules, structure qnd guidelines for all kids. But when it comes to anything involving discipline, I do all discipline for my kids and my husband does it for his. That was something I had told him from that start I was not comfortable with it. Even my own kids when they are with their dad and step mom have entire new rules then come home and it takes a bit to transition back into our normal routine.
2026-03-29 10:59:05
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