@shadowlens0: The More You Matter to an avoidat The Worse They Treat You #avoidant #AttachmentStyles #relationshippsychology

hurrrrdurrrr :

Man she must have really liked me 😂😂

user_515abc :

as an avoidant i feel so sick that im like this

Tiger :

don't self abandon yourself for an avoidant. internal battles don't justify external damage. unhealthy dynamic

Absurd :

You have to have a champagne mindset. You may be seeing your glass as half empty, your avoidant thinks his glass is half full. Settle for less youre not a faucet. What you are pouring to your avoidant is special and expensive. Its your love. Treat it like champagne. Dont over pour. Pour small. Because loving an avoidant without triggering them has to start small in a long process. Like the making of that champagne. You never throw your love away. You pour it little by little. You are expensive and valuable. Hope this helps.

Dirk :

I’m married to an avoidant

☆.𝖒𝖔𝖎𝖒𝖔𝖎.☆ :

actually don't tolerate this kind of behaviour.. it'll only ruin you, you can however empathize with them but never exuse their treatment towards you

neal Abrea :

is this true?

cutie.hnl.seoyeon :

It took me years to shift from being fearful avoidant to avoidant leaning secure. I used to distance myself to protect against the pain of rejection. I want closeness and connection, but I have been deeply afraid of the possibility of being rejected. Over time, I realized that my extreme fear of rejection was irrational. To get what I truly want, which is connection, I began facing that fear by seeking closeness first and then allowing rejection to happen if it came, instead of becoming cold after connection occurred (which I admit was cruel). In this way, I only protect myself by distancing after rejection. I believe this is the healthiest approach. At the same time, I value my independence so much that I am not compatible with someone who is extremely anxious, as that dynamic would feel suffocating to me.

Rayyder :

guess i really did matter 😅

Oceanna <3 :

Idk anymore. Last week we were so close wouldn’t things together seeing each other everyday. Then over night it changed completely. He’s ignoring me. Saying he needs space and what we had isn’t there anymore. Idk what to do. I keep asking is he still likes me which he says yes but idk if he’s saying that to just pacify me or if he genuinely means it. He only messages me on his account and only his feelings are valid. But my feelings and what I need just doesn’t even get a look into. Idk what to do. I like this boy ALOT but i don’t want to loose myself. It’s leaving me worried, stressed and crying

hellwasboring :

damn guess I was her whole world 😁

. :

i wosh i wasnt an avoidant

rovic :

yea sure.. we just broke up and my friend saw ts

saaz🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 :

I don't want to go there with her again

shammas :

Wtf lol 😭

anna kierna :

Feed my delulu

Houseburping :

dakota 🎱🎸📼 :

Where’s the part where you tell us how to fix that?

Toasted_Bread :

what should I do then💔

♱ Jay ♱⃓ :

Man she must have really started to like me half way

Dirtys :

he was totally in love with me

🇹🇴_. :

Is dat why it seemed like everything was fine then I woke up to see that he unfollowed me and he didn’t answer any of my messages? 😂

nursejaydee 🇵🇭🇺🇸 :

So wag nalang 😂