@notyouraverageminister: Some of y’all aren’t “independent”… You’re operating from a dismissive avoidant attachment style, and calling it strength. You say you want love, but when it shows up with consistency and depth… You shut down. You go cold. You create distance. Then blame them for “doing too much.” No. They’re doing what you’re afraid to do. Avoidance isn’t a personality trait. It’s unhealed trauma wearing confidence as a disguise. Be honest… was this you or someone you dealt with? #Relationship #Trust #Peace #Patience #Love