xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Peachy :
My ex was the burnout ; I want him back. I don’t want the way it was back then. I want better and I want us both to change.
2026-04-13 02:28:40
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. :
How long should I wait until breaking non contact?
2026-03-26 21:03:41
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🤓 :
I’ve been in no contact for 4-5 weeks and gladly i watched this video series, and last night i finally broke the no contact and we talk, i said exactly as you said, my partner doesn’t have any feedback yet but I try to not push and try not to control more after that, i try my best to show my partner i’m more calmer and a different person. Still hoping the best.
2026-04-21 08:03:56
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Carson :
What if I admitted that I just got comfortable and that I did kind of take her for granted. But also she didn't fill communicate on what it was she wanted (I never really told her that she didn't communicate clearly alot of the times) because she still left after she said what she "wanted" and I did that but she still left. Also she did act like it was a break and space but also said im sorry I felt like the one and maybe were not right for each other. She also asked why I'm doing everything now and I agrees to her that it takes time and I'm sorry I didn't see it fully before. She also said she doesn't want me to change for her and it's not fair to me but that just isn't what love is. Does she just want to see me change without her and to see if it's actually permanent and not me just trying to win her back?
2026-03-27 15:20:20
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Star Khechara | The Agehacker :
I’m the BOP. I ended it today. I’m so exhausted
2026-03-27 07:52:09
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AnothrUserName :
I've never said "back". "Come back home", "back to normal", "I want to go back to the way we were"... 🚫 I *have* said I want a new relationship built on a stronger foundation. Glad I got that one right. There's a quote by Esther Perel where she says (paraphrasing) most people will have 2-3 committed relationships, and some of us will do it with the same person. This describes where I'm at. I'm hopeful for a new relationship without changing partners (though both partners are changed.)
2026-04-01 11:23:26
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Bellinee :
Ah yes.. mine says ”its okay, we just have to continue and it will be better” excuse u what? So invalidating to all the hurt ive endured. Never got any true accountability of the hurt he caused. I just ”have to move on”. Hes not the one getting hurt so ofc its so easy to say ”we just have to continue”…
2026-03-26 20:01:05
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Colorado hillbilly :
Thank you so much for the advice. I’ve been doing everything wrong and listening to you has been giving me a lot of insight. Thank you so much.
2026-04-25 04:08:00
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ACE ♡♤ :
What if they were the one to say they miss how it was in the past? He kept saying how things can’t be like that anymore but meaning the happy times can’t happen anymore- I disagreed and said there can be happy times in the future and I’m taking accountability for what I lacked and promise that it wouldn’t get that bad again. But I did agree I missed the happy times, was that bad ?
2026-04-24 21:12:20
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Aj Farra :
when i tell friends that i hope we work things out. everyone in my family. says. it wont be the same like thats bad. im like goood. of its the same i dont want it
2026-03-27 01:06:59
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take3hits :
I want a new normal because the old us wasn't working...I'm changing but if she can't meet me halfway then we can't be together 😭
2026-04-14 14:33:27
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🩵Shannon🩵 :
I say this a lot because I have changed so much. I do miss the simpler times. Life is just chaotic lately. My feelings have changed though also. It’s tough!
2026-03-28 00:34:47
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GigglingJennie :
Amen
2026-04-15 05:21:25
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KDB :
Awesome videos. Thank you.
2026-04-25 02:14:08
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Allen :
exactly 💯
2026-05-17 16:55:41
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Mariya-245 :
I‘ve sait that🤣he just told me it‘s not zhe right time,😅
2026-04-22 12:54:27
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Rae Of Light :
Omg. I heard your Alexa and asked mine what the notification was. She said I don’t have any. 😂 But you do. 😂
2026-05-18 14:49:41
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Seán East :
it doesn't help I'm sitting here and saying I just want to go back but I know I can't and I can't ignore this anymore but they don't want to listen or refuse to acknowledge it. I even have a recent example. we have a board game I bought for us to play sitting set up on our table and it's been 2 weeks. unplayed. untouched. neglected. ignored and forgotten. and it's pissing me right the fuck off
2026-04-14 00:53:49
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Joe - :
But what about when the burnout monkey branched and it's been past 7 months and still there? I did chase the first couple months because I didn't know about the rebound
2026-03-27 16:00:26
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