I divorced my husband, initiated by me, and we ended up remarrying each other (yes, I remarried the man I divorced). I realized the changes I needed weren’t in my marriage, they were within myself. In other words, I had to look in the mirror. Best decision I ever made. 💞
2026-03-27 14:36:22
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katherineashk :
Hi! I think this was my comment. I’m not hating on the apps - my point was, that’s not helpful advice to give a single friend who has been using them already for yearsssss. How about making an introduction?! No one does that anymore. 😭
2026-03-27 16:17:52
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Dr. Gould :
Great advice -
2026-03-31 00:23:33
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reallycoolguy124 :
As a guy, thanks for talking about this
2026-03-27 03:17:05
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Amy2028 :
🎯 “hyper focused on picking out the bad”
2026-03-27 03:14:10
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$10 Bill :
It’s not different than a job interview/application.
2026-03-28 23:39:01
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Callie Spiess :
I met my hubs on match.com we have been married 20 yrs. Turns out we went to the same church neither of us knew! I had to go through a lot of crap before I met him though 🩷
2026-03-27 17:39:13
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miriamtyner :
Ty for sharing your wisdom and I agree with the too many options!
2026-03-29 03:42:25
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Tony :
At the heart of it, dating apps decided on a business model that created an inherent conflict of interest between users’ goals (of finding their person) and how the company generates sustainable revenue. I think all the other problems, like the ones you mentioned, stem as symptoms of that foundational problem. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights on this.
2026-03-27 04:10:57
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Emma :
Love love love this
2026-03-27 18:36:27
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User001762383914326 :
This is great! You should do mentoring on relationships! And your skin is AMAZING!
2026-03-27 03:22:55
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Bixi Hernandez :
idk that we necessarily have "more" options but definitely get your point
2026-03-27 03:16:41
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Kelli Fabian :
Say it louder for the people in the back
2026-03-27 04:28:39
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Elizabeth, PA-C | DFW Injector :
Just want to say your skin is amazing!👏🤌
2026-03-27 21:22:04
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Rachel Stern Wolff :
You are so right!
2026-03-27 03:18:31
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Tpar :
Your commenter is right. Divorced 19 years. Dating apps were better then, still not great. Now I won’t even consider them. The intent is not for them to be successful, it is to keep you on them. They have devolved into a cesspool. If you haven’t used dating apps, you don’t know the experience. I’d rather not date at all than use them. Any time I have I feel worse about myself. Dating before them was much easier, IMO.
2026-03-27 05:36:44
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Sarah Kidd :
Ok but please give us your skincare routine 🤣
2026-03-27 21:35:22
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goose :
Yeah, my issue with dating apps is that they're really inept matchmakers. Just because someone is into the same type of music as me does not mean anything about our irl chemistry! and many people are assuming a lot about someone that has a certain political affiliation or religion (and dare i say race?). It's all a mirror of our preconceived notions.
2026-03-27 19:16:11
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Elle Cristo :
@Sarah Zeiler can you please set me up though?
2026-03-27 22:00:07
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Bwilllzzzzz :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-03-27 03:00:06
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