@therealniccoy: This is something I wish someone told me. And please don’t come for me in the comments. This one is hard to say because I know how much shame can be attached to this conversation So No one talks about this part. How trauma can wire you to confuse intimacy with validation… and attention with safety. Hypersexuality isn’t the problem. It’s the pattern underneath it. And once you see it— you can choose differently. That’s where your power comes back. #traumahealing #abuserecovery #trauma #healing #letsgetreal

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4thandthink
4th&Think :
Does that apply even if the trauma happens in early childhood? Asking for a friend.😔
2026-03-28 20:20:44
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essied1977
essie :
your explanation finally made me see it so logically that I cant feel ashamed anymore. it feels like I can finally breathe
2026-03-27 16:19:06
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vcald71
VLCaldwell :
Your truth, honesty and vulnerability to open up your story and share it is so deeply inspiring! You are a light my friend and I am so proud to know you ✨♥️✨
2026-03-27 15:26:46
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user8228297626354
user8228297626354 :
Thank you for this
2026-03-27 14:26:11
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schylerjelmyer
Schyler Jelmyer :
Do you have a podcast? I need this in length 🫂
2026-03-27 21:22:09
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everbodylovesvermont
Everbody Loves Vermont :
Oh man, this is also something I wish someone had told me way back when. But hearing it now goes a long way toward taming the shame and my work toward self-forgiveness and compassion. Thank you so much for sharing this (and every other post), I wish i could convey how truly impactful you’ve been and continue to be…the catharsis is catharsis-ing 🙏🏻 you are a gift to the world
2026-04-10 15:06:24
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courtneytyler_
Courtney Tyler :
Do podcasts!!!!
2026-03-27 18:46:00
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shleenburgerhands
Shleen :
I learned this through many years of therapy. Still in therapy working through my childhood sexual trauma.
2026-04-18 17:46:04
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skurt12345
User007 :
I feel safest when I isolate now, but idk how healthy that is?
2026-03-27 17:24:30
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ptesanhunka
Renegade White Bull :
I needed to hear this. thank you
2026-03-27 16:04:02
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karenstaley10
Karen Staley :
I wish I’d known this. But better late than never.
2026-03-27 14:42:59
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honeystatic1
🍯 static :
And now I am asexual. Not interested at all. I love your content. Thank you
2026-04-25 19:57:32
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debratuxbury
Deb :
Can we become a unit? Like your my therapist & well….I will be your best patient! You are incredibly mindful & simplistic in your chats! I just love you! 💜Thank you
2026-03-27 16:06:42
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becs.realm
Bec’s Realm ✨💖✨ :
Oh you have no idea how hard this hit me. I did this as well
2026-03-27 20:12:01
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pointy.ears.illustration
Sara :
I'm just finding comfort in "calm". This is so spot on, thank you so much
2026-03-27 15:43:29
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freespyrytyst
Freespyrytyst :
I appreciate this message thank you!🤩
2026-03-27 16:13:06
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life_after_50ish
TT :
I can't do this
2026-03-30 07:59:54
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user9270967041136
bacchus111 :
Ahhhhh. Wow....... agh.........
2026-04-20 03:03:09
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bobbi37745
Bobbi Spence :
where are you I need you in my life
2026-04-14 05:03:41
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sunshine.5588
Barracuda :
All of these hit. Thank you.
2026-03-27 23:28:10
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dezortrouble
Desiree Kennedy :
Thank you for this information. I have been working on myself. It was the piece to the puzzle I was missing. ❤️
2026-03-28 18:21:59
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meg18371
Meggers :
thank you for all your videos. they are so helpful 🥰
2026-04-20 13:50:10
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serendipitous79330
Kris Jackson :
I dont think this is talked about enough. This is an extremely important topic and I think we need to talk about it more. It’s where all the shame and humiliation are all wrapped up in. If someone spoke to me like this in my 20s I could saved myself so much damage. ❤️
2026-03-30 10:51:33
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