@therealniccoy: This is something I wish someone told me. And please don’t come for me in the comments. This one is hard to say because I know how much shame can be attached to this conversation So No one talks about this part. How trauma can wire you to confuse intimacy with validation… and attention with safety. Hypersexuality isn’t the problem. It’s the pattern underneath it. And once you see it— you can choose differently. That’s where your power comes back. #traumahealing #abuserecovery #trauma #healing #letsgetreal
Does that apply even if the trauma happens in early childhood? Asking for a friend.😔
2026-03-28 20:20:44
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essie :
your explanation finally made me see it so logically that I cant feel ashamed anymore. it feels like I can finally breathe
2026-03-27 16:19:06
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VLCaldwell :
Your truth, honesty and vulnerability to open up your story and share it is so deeply inspiring! You are a light my friend and I am so proud to know you ✨♥️✨
2026-03-27 15:26:46
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user8228297626354 :
Thank you for this
2026-03-27 14:26:11
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Schyler Jelmyer :
Do you have a podcast? I need this in length 🫂
2026-03-27 21:22:09
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Everbody Loves Vermont :
Oh man, this is also something I wish someone had told me way back when. But hearing it now goes a long way toward taming the shame and my work toward self-forgiveness and compassion. Thank you so much for sharing this (and every other post), I wish i could convey how truly impactful you’ve been and continue to be…the catharsis is catharsis-ing 🙏🏻 you are a gift to the world
2026-04-10 15:06:24
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Courtney Tyler :
Do podcasts!!!!
2026-03-27 18:46:00
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Shleen :
I learned this through many years of therapy. Still in therapy working through my childhood sexual trauma.
2026-04-18 17:46:04
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User007 :
I feel safest when I isolate now, but idk how healthy that is?
2026-03-27 17:24:30
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Renegade White Bull :
I needed to hear this. thank you
2026-03-27 16:04:02
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Karen Staley :
I wish I’d known this. But better late than never.
2026-03-27 14:42:59
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🍯 static :
And now I am asexual. Not interested at all. I love your content. Thank you
2026-04-25 19:57:32
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Deb :
Can we become a unit? Like your my therapist & well….I will be your best patient! You are incredibly mindful & simplistic in your chats! I just love you! 💜Thank you
2026-03-27 16:06:42
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Bec’s Realm ✨💖✨ :
Oh you have no idea how hard this hit me. I did this as well
2026-03-27 20:12:01
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Sara :
I'm just finding comfort in "calm". This is so spot on, thank you so much
2026-03-27 15:43:29
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Freespyrytyst :
I appreciate this message thank you!🤩
2026-03-27 16:13:06
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TT :
I can't do this
2026-03-30 07:59:54
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bacchus111 :
Ahhhhh. Wow....... agh.........
2026-04-20 03:03:09
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Bobbi Spence :
where are you I need you in my life
2026-04-14 05:03:41
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Barracuda :
All of these hit. Thank you.
2026-03-27 23:28:10
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Desiree Kennedy :
Thank you for this information. I have been working on myself. It was the piece to the puzzle I was missing. ❤️
2026-03-28 18:21:59
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Meggers :
thank you for all your videos. they are so helpful 🥰
2026-04-20 13:50:10
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Kris Jackson :
I dont think this is talked about enough. This is an extremely important topic and I think we need to talk about it more. It’s where all the shame and humiliation are all wrapped up in. If someone spoke to me like this in my 20s I could saved myself so much damage. ❤️
2026-03-30 10:51:33
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