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lifewithjalesia
Jalesia | Travel & Lifestyle :
As a child of Caribbean parents, we are the retirement plan!🥲
2026-03-28 00:35:44
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jackieaina
Jackie Asamoah :
chile
2026-03-28 21:14:59
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sportr_
Nelly :
I’m an engineer and my parents are still financially more well off than me by miles. I’m extremely grateful.
2026-03-28 19:14:01
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tiffsoyo
Tiffsoyo :
Not doing it— I’m no one’s retirement plan but my own
2026-03-28 15:17:57
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kingvonnnn
TB :
I love how I don’t play that. 😭
2026-03-27 21:21:40
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cpajoyye
Joy | Future CPA :
My hubby put a stop to that when we met
2026-03-28 12:20:52
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tomes_ta
tomi☆ :
I had this same discussion with my therapist. I set aside a percentage from each paycheck in a separate account that goes towards family. The separate account is key!!
2026-03-27 18:40:15
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thareal_ken
thareal_ken :
My rule of thumb is I am not the solution for others bad life decision. The assistance will be on MY terms.
2026-03-30 00:30:19
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themakingsofjmarie
Jessieca Alford :
Stop it’s my life right now I’m not okay 🥺
2026-03-28 00:42:49
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kay_becoming
Kay becoming :
Am only 22 😩I honestly can’t
2026-03-28 17:00:00
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byjasminechristina
Jasmine Knight | Girl Mom :
The first time I told my mom no was when mine and her relationship ended
2026-03-28 01:07:20
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rozc537
rozc537 :
It never ends. I just checked my cashapp to a sibling. $18k - which doesn’t include anything I gave through zelle. He’s 68 and I will be 66 Friday. I want to retire. I will have to do the automatic transfer thing and hope it works.
2026-03-31 13:25:16
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fyewithplants
kela🍉 :
This came up in therapy. I was worried about what my mom was going to do in a certain situation. She said “what if you let her figure it out?” And she absolutely figured it out.
2026-03-29 16:34:38
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taylorkaehere
Taylor Kae🌻 :
My mom has already said she’s excited for when she can live off me😭😭
2026-05-22 20:00:14
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kolby2xtimes
Kolby :
“I’m not your retirement plan”
2026-03-28 20:58:31
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cheellsseeaa1
Chelsea :
The black tax is a curse
2026-03-30 00:28:53
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amironcam
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well i’m not doing it.
2026-05-20 00:09:09
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bartholomewhans
bartholomewhans :
You owe your parents nothing but your own success. You don’t owe them your wealth!
2026-03-30 11:44:32
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itscashash
ash :
hey so, no
2026-05-15 03:18:46
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jesuis_yaya
Jesuis_Yaya | 50+ Life | LA🌴❌ :
I started having panic attacks in my mid-20s because of this.
2026-04-05 04:30:23
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dainty.destiny
dainty.destiny :
Ohhh I’ve told myself I don’t owe anybody anything as I’m helping my youngest brother get himself together and I’ve made it clear he owes no one anything
2026-03-27 18:20:24
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luzshara
Luzshara :
that’s why i say i’m broke.
2026-05-08 08:03:25
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allthingsaneia
All Things Aneia :
Yea, I have learned to set the boundary of financial reliance
2026-03-30 04:07:29
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thehouseofgail
Gail Gotti :
NOPE! Good luck to all of them. I’m 46, retired, kids grown, grandkids here and I’m living my best life. They’ll figure it out just like I had to.
2026-04-25 18:53:12
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isthatdewdew08
Yay :
I’m nobodies retirement plan
2026-05-14 19:20:39
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