@coachbryanclark: Most people think sending videos is just “this reminded me of you” or “this is funny.” But a lot of the time… it’s deeper than that. If your partner is sending you videos about communication, relationships, or behavior, it usually means one of two things: They’ve been trying to tell you something… or they’re afraid to say it directly because it hasn’t landed before. So instead of seeing it as criticism, try getting curious. “What about this felt true for you?” “Is this something you’ve been wanting to say to me?” It’s not about the video. It’s about what they’re trying to say through it. #avoidant #avoidantattachment #relationships #relationshipadvice #fixitorfeelit
Sending these videos is the last step before leaving the relationship. I’d rather he’d reflect and be open to listening than me having to leave, but I’ve tried so hard.
2026-03-28 13:57:22
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themrs_barnes :
HIS FYP NOT MINE 😭
2026-03-30 20:09:02
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BlaqMajick1211 :
When sent, they're usually ignored. He will pick and choose based on the title. 😭
2026-04-09 19:36:44
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Fleur 🌺 :
Well.. This is me. Mostly he ignores it, or just puts a like. No reflection, nothing. Indeed, last step before leaving.
2026-03-29 19:46:36
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Reena Lynn :
Honestly, I don’t even think he watches the videos I send, so I stopped. 😔
2026-05-23 07:36:02
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Amber C Nicole :
I asked for a divorce today. iv been sending videos nothing changed. he wont changed. he just keeps showing me i don't matter im just done.
2026-04-26 06:09:11
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christian_vtx :
i’m just tired of getting 20 of these a day
2026-04-14 23:38:54
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Dana Philipenko :
Sending this video over now 😂
2026-03-30 22:02:11
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KC :
I just get a heart and nothing else
2026-03-29 23:54:55
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Reasonably_Tay :
The videos are ignored
2026-04-07 09:07:10
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Ryakai :
I don’t even send him the videos 99% of the time. He just gets upset and retreats no matter where the information comes from.
2026-03-31 03:43:57
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seekingtruth18 :
I stopped sending videos over a year ago. Still fell on deaf ears. Now I’m detaching
2026-04-11 20:00:55
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user1563030175346 :
What hurts is he knows what I’ve been trying to tell him he just is too tired
2026-05-18 04:32:40
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Kellie Unfiltered and Real :
my husband doesn't even watch mine videos anymore.
2026-04-29 12:34:45
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Shaz :
I don't even get the thumbs up emoji 😕
2026-03-29 10:08:00
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rodeomom :
I feel like you are in my head and can read my life 😳
2026-03-28 00:28:08
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Gianni Moro :
Curious
2026-04-13 18:48:30
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Sonsa🌺 :
I keep trying and it seems like he just doesn't care. It makes me feel hopeless and so alone. I had to ask so many times for him to just watch the videos I've sent and think he has, but uses the excuse of "These people aren't going through the exact thing..." It feels purposeful, but he wont talk to me about it enough for me to determine that
2026-03-29 11:36:11
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Lightning Bolt :
trying to turn relationships into endless therapy sessions has done irreparable damage I swear
2026-04-19 01:45:55
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Jennifer :
would send this over but it'd get ignored just like all the rest of them...
2026-04-05 03:59:26
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CLADAMS1984 :
my husband would loose it if i sent him this
2026-03-29 10:34:05
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Carli Sparks Huffman :
He doesn’t watch them
2026-04-30 01:37:17
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🟰💟 :
And this is how society collapses. Instead of talking and having to use our words and work through something. We use social media, cell phones, texts that get misinterpreted, and so much more.
2026-03-28 15:18:33
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olivia mae :
Me and my man sit down and watch our tiktoks together which opens up time for us to talk about anything that is sent. It could be anything from us to how the world is but when we sit down and watch them any of the videos are open to talk about how we feel about the video.
2026-04-15 17:29:56
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