@notyouraverageminister: She’s not crazy. She may just be fearful avoidant. She wants love, but closeness can feel scary. She may like you, then pull away. Want reassurance, then struggle to trust it. Desire connection, then get overwhelmed when it feels real. That doesn’t always mean she’s toxic or playing games. Sometimes it means safe love feels unfamiliar. Have compassion, but also have boundaries. Empathy is important, but so is consistency, communication, and accountability. Before calling her crazy, consider this: She may not be trying to hurt you. She may be trying to protect herself. #Relationship #Trust #Patience #Love #Attachment

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jedizayets
Кріс П :
100% facts. She thinks she’s crazy. Sometimes I do as well haha. I know I’m crazy, I’m anxious attachment. Possibly fearful avoidant that leans heavily anxious. All I know is that I am working on myself but it is a process.
2026-05-20 18:28:20
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vssvssn
💟⛧🫧♊︎ΛSSΛSSN♊︎🫧⛧💟 :
yeah my girl is a fearful avoidant. I was very anxious with her and i almost ruined our bond. I learned about all of this and we are great now. I read 2 books and now she is reading them. she repaired 3 times and she is working on herself. I love it.
2026-04-19 18:49:01
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keykbee2pretty
KEY-KEY Beeee(904)!!🤸🏾‍♀️♑️ :
damn am I a avoidant..or do I just not have time for bullshit
2026-06-07 16:03:25
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thismyworld222
J🤑E :
I didn't realize mines was like this. I started a fuss with her now we haven't talked in like 10 days
2026-04-22 04:01:29
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sglove1962
Sglove1962$ :
Men act like that more often then women
2026-07-16 00:54:12
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storm.636
storm.636 :
Idk if I’m going through this 8 months things were great and then I got hurt and I got triggered so I was anxious a lot but she disappeared and for 6 months it’s been small talk and the disappeared again
2026-04-21 16:08:00
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king.macho03
MACHO🇵🇷 FYF :
I’m going through that right now
2026-04-27 17:41:26
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vinny.e.1
Vin.ny :
It hit hard but can’t really do anything about it. I love her definitely right person wrong time
2026-04-17 21:16:12
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darryl_tv
Darryl_TV :
lol she just broke things off with me again. I told her to take care, my anxious attachment can’t deal with this.
2026-04-28 14:00:10
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zacharylathrop
Zach Lathrop :
I went through all of it. Never really got any real communication, got blocked everytime I reached out. Now we’re not talking for like the tenth time and we work together on the weekends. She’s still blocking and unblocking on TikTok and watching everything on snap from a burner and it’s been this way for little over a year
2026-04-19 18:21:56
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sophotpeek
Pot-Peak :
I just got out of one recently and she still thinks we're friends after telling me that she said that there's no more feelings but still cares about me WTF lol . I distance too
2026-05-10 01:21:41
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lovesuicide1
Michael Catron :
man we're alot alike but not like that. I have anxious attachment style
2026-04-26 02:01:00
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dupetal
Dory ♉️ :
Guilty 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
2026-06-07 05:39:51
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neonxdeon
Xaydee :
I am but I’m in second stint in the space place 🤦🏾‍♂️
2026-03-31 01:28:54
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jamaalfreeman
jtfree17 :
going thru this now 😳
2026-04-21 01:31:19
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noname_33777
𝓝𝓞𝓝𝓐𝓜𝓔🥷🏾⚔️ :
I love her
2026-03-28 02:04:28
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batyahy
BatyahY :
Damn
2026-06-07 06:02:18
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venus.bby22
Pink Marzipan :
Nooooooo💔💔💔💔💔
2026-05-26 03:51:03
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ashanti78_
Ashanti :
BIG BIG FACTS 😇❤️💯
2026-04-09 16:25:11
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lifestyleofcartier
C A R T I E R :
Preach!
2026-04-19 22:17:51
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nimi8043
Nimi8 :
this is it!
2026-06-30 13:53:15
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vays_way
VaysWay :
100% accurate
2026-06-24 23:56:35
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robertavila812
robertavila812 :
what do I do...
2026-04-19 14:51:32
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_beereloaded
Bee Reloaded :
I wish I would’ve understood my attachment style when I was engaged to my fiancé. I literally thought he was the reason that we didn’t get married, but once I learned about my attachment style, I realized that it was me and a lot of the stuff I did was subconscious. I tore his ass up too… I really felt bad for him once I was able to see things for what they really are. I don’t know how he dealt with me. Hope he’s doing well.😣
2026-04-18 04:15:51
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