@notyouraverageminister: She’s not crazy. She may just be fearful avoidant. She wants love, but closeness can feel scary. She may like you, then pull away. Want reassurance, then struggle to trust it. Desire connection, then get overwhelmed when it feels real. That doesn’t always mean she’s toxic or playing games. Sometimes it means safe love feels unfamiliar. Have compassion, but also have boundaries. Empathy is important, but so is consistency, communication, and accountability. Before calling her crazy, consider this: She may not be trying to hurt you. She may be trying to protect herself. #Relationship #Trust #Patience #Love #Attachment
Vincent A Casey Sr.
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Friday 27 March 2026 20:41:04 GMT
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Кріс П :
100% facts. She thinks she’s crazy. Sometimes I do as well haha. I know I’m crazy, I’m anxious attachment. Possibly fearful avoidant that leans heavily anxious. All I know is that I am working on myself but it is a process.
2026-05-20 18:28:20
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💟⛧🫧♊︎ΛSSΛSSN♊︎🫧⛧💟 :
yeah my girl is a fearful avoidant. I was very anxious with her and i almost ruined our bond. I learned about all of this and we are great now. I read 2 books and now she is reading them. she repaired 3 times and she is working on herself. I love it.
2026-04-19 18:49:01
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KEY-KEY Beeee(904)!!🤸🏾♀️♑️ :
damn am I a avoidant..or do I just not have time for bullshit
2026-06-07 16:03:25
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J🤑E :
I didn't realize mines was like this. I started a fuss with her now we haven't talked in like 10 days
2026-04-22 04:01:29
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Sglove1962$ :
Men act like that more often then women
2026-07-16 00:54:12
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storm.636 :
Idk if I’m going through this 8 months things were great and then I got hurt and I got triggered so I was anxious a lot but she disappeared and for 6 months it’s been small talk and the disappeared again
2026-04-21 16:08:00
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MACHO🇵🇷 FYF :
I’m going through that right now
2026-04-27 17:41:26
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Vin.ny :
It hit hard but can’t really do anything about it. I love her definitely right person wrong time
2026-04-17 21:16:12
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Darryl_TV :
lol she just broke things off with me again. I told her to take care, my anxious attachment can’t deal with this.
2026-04-28 14:00:10
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Zach Lathrop :
I went through all of it. Never really got any real communication, got blocked everytime I reached out. Now we’re not talking for like the tenth time and we work together on the weekends. She’s still blocking and unblocking on TikTok and watching everything on snap from a burner and it’s been this way for little over a year
2026-04-19 18:21:56
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Pot-Peak :
I just got out of one recently and she still thinks we're friends after telling me that she said that there's no more feelings but still cares about me WTF lol . I distance too
2026-05-10 01:21:41
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Michael Catron :
man we're alot alike but not like that. I have anxious attachment style
2026-04-26 02:01:00
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Dory ♉️ :
Guilty 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
2026-06-07 05:39:51
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Xaydee :
I am but I’m in second stint in the space place 🤦🏾♂️
2026-03-31 01:28:54
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jtfree17 :
going thru this now 😳
2026-04-21 01:31:19
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𝓝𝓞𝓝𝓐𝓜𝓔🥷🏾⚔️ :
I love her
2026-03-28 02:04:28
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BatyahY :
Damn
2026-06-07 06:02:18
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Pink Marzipan :
Nooooooo💔💔💔💔💔
2026-05-26 03:51:03
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Ashanti :
BIG BIG FACTS 😇❤️💯
2026-04-09 16:25:11
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C A R T I E R :
Preach!
2026-04-19 22:17:51
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Nimi8 :
this is it!
2026-06-30 13:53:15
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VaysWay :
100% accurate
2026-06-24 23:56:35
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robertavila812 :
what do I do...
2026-04-19 14:51:32
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Bee Reloaded :
I wish I would’ve understood my attachment style when I was engaged to my fiancé. I literally thought he was the reason that we didn’t get married, but once I learned about my attachment style, I realized that it was me and a lot of the stuff I did was subconscious. I tore his ass up too… I really felt bad for him once I was able to see things for what they really are. I don’t know how he dealt with me. Hope he’s doing well.😣
2026-04-18 04:15:51
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