I’m a fixer, empath n anxious. But I’m growing because u are right
2026-03-28 15:48:37
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Bea Theresa :
I think this is so accurate because i felt like i was a therapist in the relationship 😳🙈 now im realizing maybe i do have a hero complex
2026-03-28 02:28:39
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Vix 🦊 :
I realised I was avoiding my own issues and dealing with them. Being with the avoidant helped me to forget for a while.
2026-03-28 02:08:49
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flyawaybttrfly90 :
💯💯💯 the second I figured this out, that I was using the drama and chaos of the relationship to distract me from things about myself, it helped.
2026-03-28 01:58:04
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Dali Valo :
People are mirrors , what you see in others exist in you. Heal, love yourself and raise your standards, that's how you'll raise your vibration and attract real love.
2026-03-30 10:53:47
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Ali B :
This might be your nichest take, but my favourite.
2026-03-28 06:00:33
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CHERRY SANDOVAL :
I fucken knew it lol
2026-03-28 04:45:31
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Cristina Paisa :
I said the same about me: he matched my emotional unavailability.
2026-03-28 19:06:41
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Katelyn :
I agree. when my avoidant discarded me, I noticed that I also have a problem and need to do some introspection. I am a fixer. I want to fix everyone.
2026-03-28 15:22:45
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Britt🌹✨ :
Hold on before I let you cook I had to pause soon as you dropped the bomb that I too am an avoidant. While I’m aware of this, I was NOT expecting you to say that. Just gagged tf outta me! 🤣🤣🤣 I so needed that laugh! Lemme resume the video bc I just know you bout to cook! BRB 🤣😁
2026-05-05 00:01:13
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Meka 🌻🦋 :
I should've scrolled 😢
2026-03-28 23:00:38
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Sherlock Syn :
I just felt bad for him. Let’s be real. 😅
2026-03-29 16:15:02
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Zorruss :
It’s so true. My self love was basically zero.
2026-03-28 02:44:48
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RaisingSEN :
Omgggg!! It is so true. I yearn to FIX everyone but ME.
2026-04-23 15:23:06
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XxChasingWaterfallsxX :
well, alright then..... I got that notion myself, this is confirmation. thanks. ill work on that.
2026-04-01 20:33:07
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Kitty_Kat_Tiffy 🌙🌙 :
I knew I was anxious attachment but it took me awhile to accept I have avoidant tendencies
2026-03-29 04:18:34
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robinms78 :
Goddamnit Antonio, I literally just opened this app.
2026-04-10 18:12:21
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Kate :
He told me I was the first person to show him unconditional love, even though we both acknowledged we weren't in love. And that was like crack to me 😵💫. So then every crappy thing he did, I had to forgive because I had to show him it was unconditional. 😑
2026-03-30 17:13:49
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Fernanda Aguirre :
EVERY WORD. 👏🏼 WORD FOR WORD. 👏🏼 I desperately crave meeting people that are capable of these types of conversations 😩
2026-04-18 21:32:39
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user3413481008662 :
I figured that out after, I may be the toxic one
2026-03-28 06:03:16
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Natalie :
I was only drawn at the beginning when he seemed secure. I never gravitated toward him when he was avoidant, if anything it would turn me off. I would stay thinking it would just be a phase and I shouldn’t leave just because of a rough patch. But once I realized it was a cycle, I detached and left because it was not my responsibility to carry the whole relationship
2026-03-30 02:40:15
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Bluebutterflycandyjoy345 :
This is completely true. I'm an FA. I always end up with other FA's. But I end up anxious or extremely non chalant
2026-03-28 07:14:52
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