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culturecrush :
A relationship isn't a reward for being thin and we can't wait to be perfect to find love and partnership. We're all works in progress.
2026-03-28 08:50:48
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Apple :
Yeah but men don’t want fat women. Plain and simple. Saying this as a woman who’s been big.
2026-03-28 18:03:51
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HuffPuff 🩷💜💙 :
I was 230lbs when I met my very attractive and fit boyfriend and now I’m 130. He loved me at both weights, and because of that, I know he’s the right partner for me
2026-03-30 13:01:00
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Shaz :
“It is not the strong that eat the weak. It’s the fast that eat the slow” This applies to romance, business and so many other situations in life. Don’t delay, don’t wait for perfection. Your enemy is not your waistline, it’s the excuses we all make to delay putting ourselves out there. I struggle with this too. Secondly, as you get in shape your self image will improve and people will pick up on your new found confidence. That’s attractive and you’ll start feeling that at the beginning of your weight loss journey as well as the end 🙏🏽
2026-03-28 05:27:12
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BakeshopDeceiver :
I’m not saying you’re necessarily wrong in general, but I do think this advice has limits. I’m currently 350 lbs, though I’m working on it and have already lost 70 lbs in the past 6 months. At this point, putting myself out there would probably have a negative return for me emotionally and mentally. Realistically, when you’re that far outside what most people consider attractive, the odds are slim enough that the process is more likely to drain and hurt you than help you.
2026-04-03 20:37:21
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ffbahmkm :
I appreciate you taking the time to answer that, it definitely does provide perspective on things 🙏 I definitely would keep an open mind to it, your jean analogy actually really resonated with a lot of other things in my life… I know looking for someone while working on oneself are not mutually exclusive for the right person, but I guess it gets a little draining sometimes when things dont pan out, and my brain thinks “okay let me fix this ONE thing then ill be good to go”, if i may giveback an analogy myself mine would be that of a car stopped at a gas station before before going the distance, the car is still while it refuels and prepares the road ahead... but you have a valid point, my analogy would fail because the gas tank might never get full in my eyes and ill be stuck in the gas station not enjoying the road… and many friends told me the same, which is why I myself am a bit undecided on the topic and wanted to hear what you thought of the opposite opinion i put in my previous comments. Anyways, thanks again for taking the time, Please Make Duaa for me and Keep doing what you’re doing, you really are a Baji!
2026-03-28 06:15:54
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mariekath581 :
to paraphrase tony stark, if you're not enough without the body size you want, you'll never be neough with it.
2026-03-28 21:03:01
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no method just madness :
also... if you're a bigger person who wants people attracted to you at your bigger size... are you attracted to bigger people or are you being hypocritical and demanding someone "fit"?
2026-03-28 05:57:48
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dc32901 :
I took a year off dating to have a mini glow up, then went on 15 first dates. I’m still single 😂
2026-03-29 15:58:15
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Ms D :
We don’t fall in love with the body we fall in love with the mind and the personality- being kind and funny and hardworking is all I need - not physical perfection
2026-03-28 11:16:02
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It's Cutie's World :
I relate so much to the jeans story 😅 I had my favourite pair of jeans before I got married and lo and behold, after marriage I couldn't fit into them anymore. And I thought "I fit into them before, I'll do it again". No matter how much I exercised and dieted, those jeans never fit me ever again. I lived in leggings for 5 years. I'm only just now trying other options
2026-03-28 07:38:08
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Ms. Monaa :
It's all about looking great at any size. For me, I was thin for most of my adulthood, so now that I've gained much more weight, I don't know what to wear. However, look at Queen Latifah and any curvy, plus-size lady you know in real life. Men and everyone in this world think of beauty as being put together, feminine, having styled hair, good makeup, nail polish, etc. Your weight goals are for health. But for the dating market, just look great at whatever size you are. Sadly, easier said than done... I really struggle to style myself at my current weight.
2026-04-24 16:34:38
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Sara Ladon :
Meeting someone who’s highly motivated to achieve something can be very attractive.
2026-04-03 17:21:07
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I Listen & I Judge :
this is excellent advice
2026-04-07 03:21:27
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Josh S :
Isn’t striving for your goals itself perhaps the best version of yourself?
2026-03-28 21:58:30
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Timsthetics🇳🇬 :
What if you don’t wanna put yourself into the pool because you’re not in the financial space to deal with anyone at the moment ? Obviously I know you can grow that’s what it is but don’t you think you have to be on a journey to get there before you put yourself in a better financial position s?
2026-03-29 20:11:19
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All Was Well :
This is such a great answer
2026-03-28 15:52:18
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Climate Cassandra :
You are very wise.
2026-03-28 13:35:44
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H. :
I love how you articulate your words
2026-03-29 10:17:01
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Countess Boochie Fitzjames :
seriously!! i'm disabled and i have to emphasize emphasize emphasize that i may look skinny but i do NOT work out, i am DISABLED. if the pounds come, it is utterly NOT an option to just exercise them away!! i live in real fear that i attract people who will leave or abuse me in the very real possible event that i am no longer thin.
2026-03-29 21:57:08
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allublue :
First 😝
2026-03-28 05:11:21
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Justin roberts :
Theres also no guarantee that u'll be atractive after loosing weight. If ur a short man for example ur gonna be undesierable regardless
2026-03-28 15:13:53
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