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brent :
getting called a liar when you're telling the truth is the most frustrating thing in the world :/
2026-03-28 17:08:34
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Jyongg :
Understandably, I still didn’t feel understood in the end. Maybe because my frustration was louder than what I wanted to say
2026-03-28 13:24:22
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sandkeistle :
then the guilt right after will eat you slowly
2026-03-29 10:02:14
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R :
As someone who grew up in a dysfunctional household, I hate that I always feel the need to shout just to be understood—especially knowing how much I loathed my own parents for being angry and shouting all the time. To become someone like them is one of my biggest fears.
2026-03-29 17:33:04
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eggdropsoup :
It seems to be the only way I can be heard in a dysfunctional household. I resent having to raise my voice just to be heard, to be understood.
2026-03-28 14:06:08
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odriwxz :
then feel guilty after..
2026-03-29 09:26:23
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Mai :
Me to my family.
2026-05-10 13:19:24
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Tintin :
I get scared of myself everytime I raise my voice cause I'm scared of being my parents...but the difference is I'm not raising it out of anger, I'm raising my voice subconciously cause I felt invisble, or sometimes it feels like no one actually hears me.
2026-04-22 15:52:12
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Xielle۶۟ৎ :
I stop speaking and accept the blame
2026-05-27 23:56:04
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G :
and because of that, they see me as the bad disrespectful person.
2026-04-24 19:36:44
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aorkmd :
and I'm so jealous of people who can express themselves.
2026-04-25 04:20:39
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hihi :
Then I started holding back my tears out of anger, and also because I regretted voicing my frustrations—only to be misunderstood again because I had shouted.
2026-03-30 22:53:31
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honey miso 🍎🐛 :
then i realize how softspoken i am when i'm not around my family lmao. why do they only listen when i'm yelling?
2026-03-31 09:15:15
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valerie (*’ｰ’*)ﾉ :
i've been a quiet little kid ever since, so please forgive me for the times i tend to raise my voice when im trying to point out something.. :( not my intention. really.
2026-04-02 10:27:11
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tsuni :
every word I said got twisted instead
2026-08-31 12:02:24
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Elle :
This is how my little brother explained to me why he was always raising his voice. He means well and he does not want to hurt others. I am trying my best to be that someone who will always listen to him. I just hope I am doing enough to make him feel that I am always here to listen and understand his side.
2026-04-08 18:21:42
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sangg :
Finally, i felt seen and heard to your post. I've been dealing this all by myself. Wondering when will i be as patient, soft spoken and calm the way they want. I am trying...and it's even hard when all they see is who i am in the past and not my efforts to change. Those people i love tend to leave me because of my habit of raising my voice. But it's the only way i know to be seen and heard. But at the end of the day it's always me—only myself can help how to overcome and change this toxic habit.
2026-04-19 13:10:27
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jae. :
the guilt after is killing me
2026-03-30 16:55:34
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jey's diary :
There's an article I've read related to this. https://medium.com/@strongindependentnumblittlebug/how-silence-sounds-when-it-hugs-you-2733868be08d
2026-04-20 18:38:11
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warm hugs : )
2026-03-31 01:51:53
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โรน่า :
its what happened when you grew up in a house where you have to shout just to be understood
2026-05-11 11:21:43
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𝒂𝒃𝒔𝒐𝒓𝒃𝒆𝒅🪽 :
feels like I have to be loud to be heard. Or that no one takes me seriously if I don’t get louder
2026-05-07 03:24:52
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ルナムーン :
but then I realized that there's absolutely no point in explaining things if they aren't even willing to listen and to understand me. So, whenever I feel misunderstood, I'd just calm down and be quiet because I realized that I'm just wasting my time.
2026-05-25 15:19:02
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suel :
im so tired of being misunderstood, if only they could be in my perspective then they will know how much it hurt me
2026-04-22 13:24:19
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