@melrobbins: You show compassion to other people in your life - encouraging them after they make a mistake, supporting them after a loss, lifting them up when they feel down… Why can’t you show that same compassion to yourself? Dr. Maya Shankar, a cognitive scientist and expert on change, has a tool you can start using today to flip the switch: visual self-distancing. This tool creates psychological space between you and the problem you’re trying to solve. You've changed the focus from feeling like you're the problem to reminding yourself that you are capable of figuring this out. In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, Dr. Maya Shankar is unpacking the science behind rebuilding when life takes an unexpected turn - and why you don’t need to have everything figured out to move forward. By the end, you’ll understand how to reshape the way you see yourself, stop negative thoughts from taking over, and keep going with clarity and confidence. 🎧 “If Nothing Seems to Be Going Your Way, Listen to This.” Tune in now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube now - search ‘The Mel Robbins Podcast Maya Shankar.’
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Region: US
Saturday 28 March 2026 13:53:03 GMT
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Debme66 :
A lot of people are losing their jobs???? Have not heard that
2026-03-28 18:39:03
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thegritphd :
Space between yourself and your emotions allows you to better solve your problems 💯
2026-03-30 14:56:28
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Michelle Allen :
I lost my job 6 months ago & I constantly tell myself I’m a failure. I’m getting this book. We help others more than ourselves
2026-03-28 15:44:14
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pixar_daddy :
Tara Brach calls this the trance of unworthiness in her book “Trusting the Gold.” Such a beautiful read!
2026-03-28 16:14:40
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AKlivin75 :
Mel! I love everything about you, BUT my most favorite thing is you providing examples of how to implement your tools! It helps me fully process your suggestions! Thank you!
2026-04-30 21:17:39
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sovereignstate :
It hits different once you step back.
2026-03-29 17:07:20
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TerriB :
Yes, somehow we become our own worst enemy and we have to learn to become our own BEST FRIEND!💙
2026-03-28 23:01:04
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John Potter ❌✌️❤️🤬✊😎🤪❤️🔥 :
This all of this 💯
2026-03-28 15:42:00
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samirf4767 :
Useful! Thank you for this @Mel Robbins! ❤️
2026-03-28 20:07:32
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Theta Mind :
how do we show compassion to ourselves so others can see ☺️
2026-03-28 15:52:06
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Amy Duncan :
Amen! This is so my reality now. 🙏🏻
2026-03-29 06:16:53
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Laraleecaine| Love Coach ♥️ :
Yes this is so good … expanding your vision rather than hyper focusing on the problem. Why do we speak to ourselves in ways we would never talk to others. Self compassion rather than victim blaming ourselves.♥️
2026-03-29 10:18:31
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pathowell455 :
So very true words.....❤️❤️❤️
2026-03-28 15:21:05
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buythelink :
Helpful!
2026-03-28 14:34:02
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Lynette Vallejo :
🙏Truth
2026-03-28 15:10:53
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The Becoming Diaries with Mali :
Love this
2026-03-28 20:54:53
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kimmti1 :
truth
2026-03-28 19:01:58
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Tall-girl :
This might help with my ADD procrastinating 🤔
2026-03-30 10:52:56
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Just Top Clips :
True
2026-05-18 03:34:52
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The Simple Pineneedle :
If you are feeling good. Negativity sits just below the surface waiting for its moment. So ‘perfect” daily meditation is the only activity with the power to dissolve negativity before it has a chance to erupt or consume you.
2026-05-11 11:35:17
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Karen :
❤️❤️❤️this👌
2026-04-24 11:22:18
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j :
i adore both of these women
2026-04-23 22:05:47
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WellnessGal :
Im so harsh to myself. I really been working on it. I have a picture and where I get ready in the morning by the mirror when I was a little baby. Love love you gals.🤗
2026-04-23 03:29:13
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A Beach Podcast :
Truth💯
2026-03-29 00:02:01
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