@heather.xoxo: #avoidantattachmentstyle #anxietyrelief #relationshiptips #datingadvice #fypシ

tyler🌲🦌📷 :

its alot easier to find someone who can love the same way you do

jpschieder17 :

literally researching everything i can on this bc i wanna love her the right way and i genuinely used to struggle so much with this

yba_nwk :

it's unfair that anxious attachment type people have to do efforts for avoidants to feel safe when we don't like bro please we matter too ?

melv2606 :

hate being an avoidant at times, but thank you for this..

♆ :

Just walk AWAY

dawsgolfs :

I see all these comments about avoiding avoidants and that just angers me. They’re people too that have gone through things just like everyone else. They can’t help their tendencies and need to do whatever to feel safe. Yes it’s hard being with one but they’re beautiful in their own ways

It'z Red :

nakakadrained yan lalo na pag may anxious attachment ka

Emeka | Emotional Intelligence :

I’m an avoidant, and you’ve got this absolutely spot on

Chris :

tiya(◕ᴗ◕✿) :

why on my fyp?? I'm the avoidant here😭😭

DamieN :

so what about my feelings

Graced😅🥂 :

i do have a genuine question....I see a lot of things anxious attachment need to do to help the avoidant,but I barely seen what avoidant need to do to help anxious. why? anxious must understand and wait for avoidant to come around while working on themselves while anxious just comes back after the feeling better and understood??

𝒟 :

as an anxious person this helps a lot, with him i’ve learned i need to be more patient in allowing him to show up on his own.

Kalista :

I hope he comes back I miss him

tess 🦦 :

this but sometimes it’s easier to love someone who loves the same way you do, understanding comes easier. ❤️‍🩹 if you’re both opposites and never learn to compromise or adapt it will not work

kayell :

put this on his fyp please 😭😭

ewok :

I'm trying. she's worth my time, and I know I have a lot more time to give her.

megaflyridedeer :

and even if you do all of this perfectly, if they aren’t willing to work on themselves unfortunately it won’t work

طارق :

Just walk away man if people can’t heal and love you the same way you do walk away

gonpo24 :

can anyone help me, bygiving advice or explaining to me about how an avoidance partner feels, I want to be the best partner for her, please if you have any advice DM me

Steve :

I’ll try cause she’s worth it

shadow🖤🤍 :

I failed 1,2,3,4,5,6,9,10,11,12,13,14 now I feel like I lost him I didn’t understand these things at first I got frustrated I always focused on the bad an none of the good this was us before

Quinn 📚✨🎶🎥 :

He broke up with me today. He says he still cares and wants to be friends and that he’s really struggling with his mental health. I miss him so much. My heart is aching. I’m not going anywhere, and I’m just hopeful that we can both fix our issues and he will come back to me

Christianupptown :

is loving someone really that complicated