Codependency Kate
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Sunday 29 March 2026 14:30:32 GMT
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Schyla :
is grey rocking the appropriate response to this? I have to be around my kids other parent and he engages in both of these pretty much nonstop. it's pretty simple not to engage in the hostility part, I just pretend not to understand the "joke", but the fake nice seems to pull me in every time and I hate how it makes me react by also being fake nice back. should I just grey rock instead? it's draining, it feels like a job interview.
2026-03-29 21:37:32
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Aura :
Yeah. 😅 May that love never find me.
2026-03-29 15:35:55
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JugglerPhilosophy :
but as an audience (or friend/family member) there is no correct way to respond to someone's abuse. To ignore or minimize it is enabling. to point it out is too confrontational. You can't blame the audience - they are posting their abuse publicly. That is the nature of the double bind
2026-03-30 16:16:48
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secularsunshine :
It’s easy to see the reality when someone gets their feelings hurt by a joke or prank. Is the other person responsive? Do they immediately check in? Do they offer reassurance? If they don’t, it’s not actually about sharing a laugh.
2026-03-31 20:28:54
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⋆⁺𓆩C A R M I N A𓆪⁺⋆ :
It’s like monetized relationship collusion
2026-03-29 20:20:13
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Lifeprint Reiki :
Yes! Pranks are toxic!
2026-03-30 15:44:45
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MellyC :
The thing about pranks is that they only work without consent.
2026-03-30 21:19:17
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whimsybcreates :
I haaate watching the prank videos with couples it’s just sad
2026-03-30 15:56:05
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Princess Hyacinth :
You’re seeing playfighting
2026-03-31 10:08:55
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Dana :
This is explains so much of the difference in emotional security between me and my husband. He was an only child who had a very supportive group of adults (mom, grandparents, aunts and uncles) who gave him a lot of attention and one-on-one interaction and activities. I was the youngest child (and only daughter) who was constantly being treated with pseudo (and sometimes actual) hostility and had parents who dismissed it as siblings just teasing. We're all in our fifties and it sounds like I need to go back to therapy.
2026-03-31 11:20:32
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Alexa :
🙏
2026-03-29 15:37:39
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