@vibe_samurai: The moment you start defending yourself… you’ve already lost. Most people don’t realize they’re being baited until it’s too late. Once you see this, you can’t unsee it. #psychology #manipulation #selfawareness #boundaries #mindset

Camilo Mendez :

just leave those people outside of your life

Normální Čína :

i cannot stop focusing on veneers

Marita Kosmo :

I have wasted so much time trying to convince people the sky isn’t green.

Bahareh :

People always tend to change subjects in s discussion and my husband told me years ago that if this happens and you answer to each new subject you will lose the first topic. Since then I never allow people to change subjects while discussing something. I even dont allow my husband himself to do that

lovethelakes :

I have a close family member that likes to say subtle mean comments, when I reacted they would say they were joking and I'm too sensitive. Now I respond with ' I know you didn't intend for that comment to sound so mean' it has stopped them in their tracks 😁

HLONi :

quickest way to lose me

stillmh :

“The goal isn’t truth.” Now I get it.

spicy waffle :

It’s basically them trying to belittle your emotions. You have the right to feel whatever you feel without being told you’re overreacting. Your feelings matter!

flo🪽 :

DonjuanMarco18 :

Walk away. choose your battle. Eat ice cream. enjoy. repeat.

allexandra.queen • Following :

That’s actually a great tip, thanks

meryshelley :

"Calm, simple, no detours" ok chatGPT... the rule of 3s never fails

elena_nanu :

Terre :

My effing parents. It's exhausting.

_ :

That is how my ex husband reacted every time we had a argument

cris morgado ✿ :

are u talking about my mom right here? 😭

HealingYourLifewithSabrina :

Amazing explanation 👏

marki carki :

one piece comes back on 5th of april very exsited

⫷ VΛSTI ⫸ :

My partners family.

Lin :

Wish I knew this before. I was always so defensive and reactive to manupultion and gaslighting.

117 :

It also shows up when you make an observation, nothing more than a statement, but many are in a continuous competition mode. And they're going to win that conversation dammit. 😅. Very relative at the moment, thanks. 😁

ericarn2004 :

So awful that we even have to do this smh

plommestien 🇳🇱 :

The planet does NOT need more succesful people. The planet desperately needs more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers and lovers of all kind. - DALAI LAMA

Morris Stephen :

That just happened to me this afternoon

Nocturnal :

My ex exactly..Thnx for the clear explanation 👍🏻