xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Gerry :
My only concern is them trying to be in relationship with other people.
2026-03-29 18:22:03
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user1045127811666 :
After a period of no contact what kind of message can be sent that won’t be pressure but also won’t give vibes of I don’t want you back but I’m taking accountability?
2026-03-29 20:22:10
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dannylifts32 :
Honestly actually needed this because she reached out to be yesterday as she is the burned out Pursuer. Actually thought about doing this and refrained from it. Thank you for these videos they have helped me for my own healing journey and also being mindful of her.
2026-03-29 17:58:06
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passionfruitfrenzyy :
If i have to hold myself back from them then i don’t want it anymore i want something more authentic, so i think ill take my chances with someone new instead
2026-05-17 16:24:47
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AnothrUserName :
I made this mistake, and I regret it. She came over, we went for a walk, and she was sharing a glimpse into her inner world. She was sharing how she's spending her time, what she's doing, etc., and I listened. Almost 2.5 hours of bliss for me. In the last half hour, I feel like I slipped. I didn't say, "We need to talk about us.", but I said, "When you're ready, I'd like to talk about us. I don't want to rush you. When you're ready, I am here." I felt like I said it "right', but totally at the wrong time. 😖 That wasn't the last thing we discussed that day. We had more talk during the visit, but I feel like it tarnished the visit.
2026-04-01 14:39:09
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akireollesor :
I just told my husband I want to separate... I'm scared now and feel guilty
2026-03-29 22:05:37
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user1455246580449 :
your videos have opened my eyes to some much I have done wrong for so many years. I will always be grateful for your videos. Thank you for taking time to make them. I have listened to so much of your advice. I am finally seeing very small changes in my wife. We still have our divorce papers but I am slowly seeing a change and her opening up a very little at a time. I finally have a little hope to saving our marriage. I know I.still have massive amounts of work to do. Thank you. I pray God blesses you and your family.
2026-04-28 08:38:57
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Nicki Simon :
Your messages come at the right time. Thank you 🥰
2026-05-13 16:57:38
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user543298626 :
How would you go about doing this if you still live together? We sleep in separate rooms, barely talk besides some texts here and there?
2026-04-25 12:58:10
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( ҂ × ཀ × ) :
thank you so much for these videos
2026-05-11 21:48:27
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tonedeAFlizard94 :
I accidentally did this and now we’re back on track for divorce.. anyway I can still come back from it?
2026-04-27 13:47:33
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Corey Martin617 :
As an anxious attachment guy the biggest thing I’m learning is to just enjoy the moment .. don’t assign meaning to it … stay the course and trust the process as you said .. cat analogy is spot on
2026-03-29 19:58:33
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AlleyCat Hydrographics LLC :
This is so true and my current situation. I got the inch and held back some asked for lunch today and got it I’m like yes what a HUGE stepping stone then told her we need to slowdown don’t want anyone moving to fast. We went from limited talking to open talks though the day. I need to remember she needs her space yet and not get inside my own head
2026-04-10 22:03:33
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Doug :
thank you so much for you content it is helping me out every day
2026-04-26 11:42:20
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kayla :
this is so exhausting
2026-05-16 22:47:03
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the lunchbox :
Finally a message that might be where we are …. Probably not but good day today… back off take what I got and be happy with it this could be one of our last good days together or the start of something else time will tell not getting my hopes up
2026-03-29 21:58:46
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Jonijowel :
The cat thing is so so helpful
2026-05-03 08:52:04
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T bag :
What if there burned out but they were never the pursuer?
2026-03-29 23:04:06
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Triditions :
We have recently broken up for a week, she is an avoidant and has got overwhelmed and exhausted I think she’s burned out from a cycle we got ourselves into, this is the first time it being different where she’s fully shut me out and is done, I’m unsure what to do
2026-06-29 19:38:28
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SuperbikeGuy :
Don’t forget do it in the first place.
2026-03-31 23:39:26
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michellecapitalhell :
How can you open up more as a burnt out pursuer?
2026-05-21 11:57:33
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IsabellaDietrich#1Fan :
Honestly thank u
2026-05-20 15:52:35
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Veles :
Yeah too much hustle and feeling involved, not worth it, people will eventually return to their natural behavior. So my ex is going what you are describing, and I completely letting her go not easy but no return deal.
2026-04-19 06:44:47
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Fireteller :
Its so valuable to understand the other person’s emotional motivations. Without these insights the behavior comes across so startlingly cold. I wish there was a better way to become aware of the intensity of my ex’s concerns.
2026-05-29 02:58:30
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1LuckyDad :
Could you expand a bit on what warm but detached, looks like? That’s where I still struggle to find that gear, because I know it’s probably the best course of action regardless of outcome.
2026-03-30 23:39:40
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