thanks. I’ll stop asking chatgpt to analyze his text for the 100th time
2026-03-30 06:25:58
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Jenn :
Someone who can, will, does, cares & wants to.
2026-03-30 09:49:44
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kate :
this is so much better than "let them."
2026-03-30 21:33:25
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Jessica Smith :
Capacity.
2026-03-29 22:42:18
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LLCoolWray :
Psychologist here. This is really great, concise advice.
2026-03-30 13:55:27
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GiancarlØ :
“They just can’t” is actually a good thing to tell yourself when your mind is in an attachment loop with the person.. it’s comforting
2026-03-30 17:24:32
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Marijana Perović :
God speed yes
2026-07-09 21:15:56
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Miss Vic :
So much better than “if they wanted to they would”
2026-03-31 04:43:52
427
Rachel Klubeck :
Great now I’ll throw up
2026-04-02 00:35:51
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Erin▪️Interior Designer :
Took me 30 yrs of marriage to realize this. I’m not mad about it. Now I know.
2026-03-30 14:55:37
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Vicki 🐝kindofa🐝 :
I said this to him earlier. "you're who you are," and thats enough for someone, but its not enough for me."
2026-04-04 04:29:16
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Whitney. :
Accepting this would have saved me soooooo much time
2026-03-29 23:33:22
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Thea Lissi :
Actually, yes, best advice. I’ve heard.
2026-03-29 23:51:41
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mandilynnnn :
This just flipped a switch in my brain
2026-03-31 00:06:32
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Nicole Sciacca :
Legitimately brought tears to my eyes. Thank you.
2026-03-30 14:33:22
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Carson Janell Bartro :
Compatibility is measured in capacity. You can’t love them into greater capacity. In other words- you can’t force compatibility
2026-05-16 14:02:48
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✨ Glimmer Mama ✨ :
I love this. Another thing I’ve learned is “two things can be true at the same time”. They can be romantic and loving and still not emotionally available. It doesn’t mean they’re a bad person; they’re just not able to meet you where you need them to. Hard lessons to learn but so so important.
2026-04-08 03:11:08
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CHB :
This reframe is so useful. I think the “if he wanted to he would” vibe is so detrimental. This is way more standards focused and empowering. Thank you!!
2026-04-01 02:45:25
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The OG Pickle Queen 👸 :
There’s 8 billion people on earth. Someone else will be better. Statistically- so stop focusing on one person - there’s always someone better
2026-05-14 04:47:14
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Florentina Giorgiana :
200% true
2026-05-09 23:18:01
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Brandi :
It’s so simple and we make it so complex. ❤️
2026-03-30 14:08:34
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💫Jamie✨ :
This is so timely. I let him go today and he got so emotionally immature. I won’t be responding to him. I’m done.
2026-03-31 04:35:52
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Just_Lindsey :
Yep. But it still suckkkkkkks 🥺
2026-03-30 06:08:17
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Stephanie :
He can’t, but I so wish he could
2026-04-24 05:09:27
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lo 🌶️❤️🔥🧨 :
CAPACITY 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2026-03-30 13:30:45
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