@radicalstepmomspodcast: The stepmom who steps up... because the "real" mom won't...#stepmotherhood #blendedfamily #coparenting How many of you are an "overstepping stepmom" because you feel you have to overcompensate for the ex's absence? Fulltime stepmoms ... where are you?! How many of you have stepped into the role and first introduced the concepts of structure and a schedule? How many truly feel like you're not overstepping... you are just genuinely showing up for kids you care for and that's being villainized? No matter how you slice it, most stepmoms aren't actually trying to push anyone out and be THE mom. Many of us are just showing up in our families and are wanting a seat at the table. Many of us would actually love to be less involved and are actively working on creating those boundaries. But hey, what do I know? People who aren't stepmoms must have it right. My stepson had a birthday last month. I invited the friends over, made the cake and hung the banner. I made sure he felt special and celebrated. The woman who birthed him? Didn't do a damn thing. I show up the way I do because that's what he deserves. I'm not trying to be the mom... but someone's gotta do it. Who can relate?

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amana7241
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I wouldn’t mind a stepmom like that for my children. Not that I can’t do my job but the more love they receive the better for them.
2026-03-29 22:32:12
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strawberryskizzy
StrawberryCow :
can't repost, but know I was here
2026-03-30 11:56:05
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user1759817855558
user1759817855558 :
Im not trying to be no one’s step mom , they have a mom and dad already , im just the dad wife
2026-04-10 23:01:44
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kristylynn55
Kristylynn :
no. just no.
2026-03-30 21:41:57
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auralias
Auralia Snyder :
This is not the case all the time.
2026-04-12 11:01:34
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sweetheavy04
Anthony Munoz the SAHD :
Your not the stepmom, your the Mom that Stepped Up 👍
2026-04-10 03:00:21
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cheftraci4u
cheftraci4u :
As a step mom the kids wanted to call me mom but their mother wouldn’t let them. To this day I’m still the one they come to when they have problems.
2026-03-30 17:02:21
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delicious.kisses
Iza Caraballo :
I grew up with both. And it was the bwst thing in the world. Its called being an adult and doing what's best for the child. The problems between the adults is just that. My stepmom was AMAZING, she loved me and my children like her own until her last breath.
2026-04-21 02:42:39
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hl.lamont
💜MaLaMonster💜 :
Man, I wanna repost this so bad.
2026-04-12 22:11:08
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malpvanmetre
Mal :
Oh my gosh finally a stepmom post I can relate to!!! It’s different when you’re the technical stepmom but the one doing the actual RAISING of the kids.
2026-03-31 17:15:06
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juliaoswaldhealth
juliaoswaldhealth :
Bc SD lives with us full time and I’m the one doing the day to day everything… paying for the extras, scheduling the appts, calendar management of activities… you name it… yes Dad is absolutely involved and helps with all of it but I have a more flexible schedule than he… and I’m already doing all of this for my kids….
2026-03-30 17:00:37
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.angel.t_
AngelT :
Say 👏🏻 It 👏🏻 Louder 👏🏻 😭 and then when we love our bonus kids as our own and take care of them and love them, we are pushing boundaries.
2026-05-01 21:10:05
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lorain1787
Lo :
I have never seen something on the Internet that has hit the mark so hard!EVER!!
2026-04-11 17:15:10
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jameson.c4
Jameson C :
why you a steelers fan
2026-06-26 23:25:39
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lupe_harrizon
lupe :
Reposting because same!!!
2026-06-01 00:46:51
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brucegray233
Bruce Gray233 :
go steelers!!
2026-04-04 08:51:20
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protective_mama_lion
Not the princess Diana :
Preach it!!! 👏👏👏👏
2026-04-13 03:47:52
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hayleyjoanz
H💥A💥Y💥L💥E💥Y :
In my defense. Im never trying to replace the mom.. i cant help that i fell in love w them too and i do for them as i do my own…
2026-04-09 10:09:40
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sjm726
Sarah Diaz :
Yup these kiddos live with me full time. Let someone tell me I’m not their mom. 😒
2026-04-01 01:52:37
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10000000000000000000000
2026-04-03 00:38:57
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maryalicesnyder
Mary Alice Snyder :
Say it louder for the moms in the back!
2026-04-10 00:26:19
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rosemaryrodrigu720
Zombiemom :
I mean you aren’t lying lol
2026-04-09 14:51:27
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farrah.ann7
Farrah Ann :
Exactly
2026-03-31 00:54:01
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daniel_michelle21
Daniel_Michelle21 :
Shout out to my wife Michelle Maqueira #TheBestStepMomEver 🥰
2026-04-10 21:10:44
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gedrengrey
Gedren :
She was a mother to me when mine wasn't, I still love and appreciate her for it to this day even though she is not with my father anymore. Thank you to ALL the step parents who accept your step children as your own. We see you.
2026-04-10 13:53:49
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