@18hens: Is this relatable to anyone or am I just being insufferable LOL I’ve experienced demand avoidance my entire life but it only recently occurred to me that I’ve been feeling it towards myself lol. When you’re as high masking aka “high functioning” as I am, it’s hard not to constantly observe how other people behave/function… Which leads me to believing I’m never doing enough. I can’t even do the things I WANT to do. It’s so frustrating. Anyways, I think the WANT TO DO LIST is pretty genius, if I do say so myself…. Unless it’s already a thing people have been doing then nvm LOL
I just realized how much pokemon is in this video lol wth
2026-03-29 22:35:16
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laurenmillette :
Genuinely 100% relatable, has been a topic of conversation in many sessions
2026-03-30 04:20:46
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Miss Phoebe Louise :
Don’t should yourself, as my therapist would say 😁❤️
2026-03-29 22:27:50
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robertjohnstons :
That sounds like a wonderful idea. Sometimes, I just get depressed that I'm not 'normal,' because not being so, destroys my social life. But, this is inspiring me to look at it from a different angle! 🙂
2026-03-30 01:12:12
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paigej5195 :
I’ve been struggling lately too. I feel like all of my energy is being used up at work and I have none left for anything else. Only thing keeping me going is I’ve gotten into a new hobby, which is good because I’ve lost interest in all of my other ones
2026-03-29 23:14:05
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CYD :
Yeah I def needed to see this video! Thanks girl 😭
2026-03-30 02:38:17
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emmmmmmmma :
i really really like this frame! gonna keep this in mind
2026-03-30 03:14:09
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dezzieoh :
Ooo that’s an interesting reframe!
2026-03-29 23:44:07
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Peta C :
OMG!! This is the first time I’ve felt understood. So so very real!
2026-04-05 14:07:24
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Wendy Mosto🍁🍁🍁🍁 :
100% relatable
2026-04-11 02:12:32
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Miraska :
me and my therapist agreed that i regarding to yourself with compassion and care would lead me to i nicer life
2026-03-30 01:06:50
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Dennijes :
Needed this today ❤️
2026-03-29 22:48:30
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ray :
yes this is relatable 😭
2026-04-05 12:58:58
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monhegan20007 :
Yes, same.
2026-04-05 15:07:47
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jocygoncuev :
I needed to hear this 😭
2026-03-30 04:23:07
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This is so relatable 😭
2026-03-30 04:09:11
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Karen :
Omg the Muji store😭😭
2026-03-30 01:22:26
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Angel Colon970 :
I will now be creating “want to do lists” that sounds way less terrifying
2026-04-03 10:51:08
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Ashaley Yang :
my therapist just told me this this week too.
2026-04-23 20:59:30
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Novembertag :
Totally relatable, but as I expressed this “feeling” to my therapist: that everyone is expecting something from/of me, while also saying beforehand that I know it isn’t really like that, she stopped me and criticized me. She said that when I use words like everyone or all, she could include herself in that, and that I can’t communicate, or can barely communicate. I love the angle your therapist takes. So really thank you for sharing.
2026-04-19 13:18:16
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Katie Tues :
Very relatable 🫶
2026-04-11 06:29:12
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Darlette :
Woah WOAH this is actually blows my mind
2026-05-01 03:43:02
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jescomp :
This sounds exactly like what my therapist says for me 😂❤️
2026-04-06 20:31:51
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Laeti ♡ :
No this is very much relatable, dw 💛💛💛
2026-03-30 02:55:08
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