@making_senseofit_w.katt: Parents are not stupid they are being outpaced by a language that was never meant to be used as a weapon and what is happening right now is that therapy language is being simplified repackaged and handed to adult children in a way that removes nuance and context so phrases like emotionally immature or protect your peace or set boundaries stop being tools for understanding and start becoming labels that shut conversations down entirely and when a therapist tells a child to stop engaging with a parent by reducing them to a fixed character it doesn’t create growth it creates distance and certainty without accountability and here is the problem language shapes reality so if a parent is labeled as emotionally immature without depth or dialogue then everything that parent does gets filtered through that lens and the relationship never gets a chance to evolve this is not what good therapy is supposed to do good therapy expands perspective it increases capacity it teaches people how to stay in discomfort long enough to build something better not exit the relationship the moment it becomes hard and parents are left confused not because they lack intelligence but because they are trying to respond to a system of language that has already decided who they are without ever allowing them to participate in the conversation ❤️ #fyp #estranged #nocontact #parents #relationships

sarah :

your making her point for her. what makes you think you are right?

bernie1208 :

why are you taking this so personally?

blue_iris1105 :

You don't get to decide whether or not you hurt someone. If they felt hurt, that's their reality. You can walk around believing everything is all hunky dory, but that doesn't mean it is. Your difference of opinion does not invalidate their experience.

Amy❤️ :

Oh dear. You proved her point so well

Mustardseed7 :

Honor your mother and father

mikaelamary :

I love when you immediately just prove them right.

aleisha murray :

I love you stitched her video just to prove her right

Lisa :

This reaction is part of the problem. Just because you don’t agree doesn’t mean your son or daughter is wrong. It’s surprising that parents aren’t willing to have discussions and try to understand where their child is coming from. I listen every time my kids talk to me and usually I can understand why they feel the way they do. Then they listen to me and they can understand where I’m coming from. We apologize and try to do better. Their feelings are their feelings and you don’t get to say I don’t agree with your feelings.

maybeKat :

I love how the video came with an example

Scott :

Just because you're the parent that doesn't mean you're right 🤷

Sarah :

This is exactly what she’s talking about. You care more about arguing who is “right” vs. “wrong” than you care about understanding your kid’s feelings and perspective. Those conversations should be a team effort to find a path forward that works for everyone, but they’re turned into battles instead. The conversation turns into an attempt to prove that the kid shouldn’t feel what they feel instead of seeking understanding, and that’s what makes them feel dismissed and alone.

SJ :

taking this so personally means she is right

roe :

sharp as a marble you are

thread_with_gold :

Thank you for confirming her point.👏👏

TheRentedNest :

You don’t get to agree or disagree with someone’s experience. It’s theirs.

Sihmonah :

The level of self awareness is freezing in Celsius here

B :

Way to prove the original poster’s point

MadMads :

Aaaaah, your animosity gives your game away.

farrfromhometravels :

How can you not agree with someone wanting space and boundaries???

Linda Elise Valenzuela :

As a parent, I would never make fun of my child. What kind of BS is that?

Medium-Mary :

lol my daughter is one of many reasons i have stronger boundaries now i can’t trust what or how she continues to hurt her own family. She choose to leave thats ok. But i get it now am not going to chase a relationship she clearly doesn’t want. And i refuse to allow her to hurt me that way.

erminetree78 :

Amy :

Wow. In a short clip I want to go no contact with you!

Magda :

The irony is peaking 😂

NurseKriseWA :

We understand it, but disagree with it completely!!