@therealniccoy: We talk about life like it’s supposed to bloom all the time… but life is a garden—and gardens know seasons. Winter isn’t failure.Winter is rest.Winter is survival.Winter is quiet, unseen work beneath the surface. Today is my birthday… and instead of celebration, it looks like caring for sick kids, feeling under the weather, and snow falling outside. Ironic? I don’t think so. Maybe this is exactly what today is asking of me—to lay down the pressure to perform, to bloom, to be “on”… and simply rest. To tend gently. To survive with gratitude. Because making it to this season of my life is something to honor, even if it doesn’t look the way I imagined. So today, I release the expectation of celebration…and choose presence instead. Some seasons are for blooming. Today is for resting And that’s enough. 🌿❄️ #seasons #healing #wisdom #discernment #mindset

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kiciaszke
Kiciaszke :
I have ADHD, I am far behind in every possible way
2026-03-30 14:25:51
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katusha1499
katusha :
I'm definitely in winter...the Game of Thrones kind.
2026-03-30 17:50:27
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nao.wtz1
nao.wtz1 :
trauma-informed therapist here. something that really stayed with me from reading the book her unfolding equation by nora silan is the idea that many of the behaviors people criticize themselves for are actually survival strategies they developed in difficult situations. that perspective alone reframes so much of how people see their own past. i appreciated that nora silan doesn’t present healing in the book as some perfect or aesthetic journey. instead the book acknowledges that understanding yourself can be uncomfortable and messy, but also incredibly empowering once you start seeing the patterns more clearly.
2026-03-30 22:33:54
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san_d_paper
𝑺𝑨𝑵_𝑫_𝑷𝑨𝑷𝑬𝑹 🍵 :
What happened to the walking videos 😭
2026-03-30 14:36:48
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jen.t.tran
Jen T. :
oh shoot man i think i just found my new favorite page! ur content is changing lives!
2026-05-24 04:39:31
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berrofronzo
BerroFronzo :
One day, if we ever meet, I'm gonna request respectfully if I can hug you with every bit of strength I have in my body.
2026-03-31 00:40:08
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catzooks
CatZooks :
✨ Your framing is Masterful. Each of your videos Sparks something in me—which I can use, or not. • But the 'otherness' of your lessons, spoken in gentle cadence -Always- brings me thoughtful peace.. 🕊🪽
2026-04-01 00:07:54
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smashleytheking
Ash :
Thank you for this. I am struggling to overcome chronic health conditions and severe cptsd. I didn't get to have a normal education bc of traumatic circumstances, and I want to go back to school even though I am 30 but I am stressed bc I don't think I am ready yet and feel like I have no time. This was genuinely so helpful
2026-03-30 21:00:22
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aiwithfey
aiwithfey :
lovely way to put it ❤️I definitely did a lot of yelling at frozen ground myself 😅
2026-05-27 01:41:34
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kristinana055
Kristina :
A brilliant comparison, it's clear, relatable, and so helpful. ✨✨✨ Thank you. 🌷🪻
2026-05-02 11:05:23
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inc1977
inc1977 :
Your poetic approach to healing is profoundly beautiful. ♥️
2026-03-30 16:15:33
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johopps71
Jolyne Hopps :
Winter has ruined 99.9 percent of my life!!! I’ve struggled thru every other season
2026-05-14 04:37:15
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noxcsi
Nox :
Personal growth, emotional maturity, and healing are inherent aspects of the human experience, and they naturally occur at different stages of life, and its seasons
2026-03-30 23:27:05
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thestyleofvenus
The Style of Venus ❤️✨ :
I am grieving for my cat and needed to hear this 🙏
2026-03-30 16:17:11
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__eona
__eona :
Thank you!
2026-04-27 17:58:22
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catkin1313
Caitlin :
Everything in its own time. It’s such a hard hard lesson.
2026-03-30 15:47:48
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natalieguma
NATALIE :
AUTUMN BACK TO THE ROOTS
2026-03-31 09:34:28
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nadia83miniature
NadiaTufail :
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Exactly
2026-04-14 10:19:45
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alisdidit
LoveAmy :
love this ❤️winter is for rest
2026-03-30 15:41:17
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salah.shrf
Salah :
Thank you 🙏
2026-03-31 21:16:35
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mulherdemuseu
JEN 🌞 BOOKTOK :
I’m in the winter love but summer career that’s difficult
2026-03-31 04:33:56
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shannondyan1973
shannondyan1973 :
What is your Venmo sweet lady??..just watching your videos have healed a few parts in me I needed healed...baby steps..I feel good ...so that's something I thank you for. Thank you
2026-04-14 04:27:03
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kennedykristi
kennedy :
Ohhh sometimes the winter is 3 years long and that’s ok 🥲
2026-05-05 20:07:11
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hannahunna
Hanna :
But there’s asparagus!
2026-04-23 19:42:07
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slindile_n_biyela
slindile_biyela :
Respond to your own season 🙇🏾‍♀️
2026-04-29 05:50:01
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