xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Ed Palmer :
You exhausted me in your first 8 seconds.
2026-03-30 17:48:41
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Aimee Towery :
Did you guys go to counsling during your separation? Was it after you decided to try again?
2026-04-15 01:01:23
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Maria 🦋🦋🦋 :
I have been trying to do this, but just struggling to get even this point across to him. I feel like I need to be separated.
2026-03-30 18:11:54
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HectorMtz8732 :
thanks for your honesty here in this public platform. it's nice to know theres hope, keep choosing each other. 💯
2026-05-25 22:12:48
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Emperor_Fisher :
are u repairing the relationship or with a new person
2026-03-30 18:12:37
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Chip :
Your story resonates with me so much. How did you convince him to not go through the divorce after you came back with a separation? I suggested a separation, but eventually my wife decided divorce was the move. I don’t want to be divorced and you’ve described everything I’m going through :(
2026-04-05 20:38:31
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jess :
we have to live on the same property if we seperate and I just cant see how its going to work but financially thats all we can do. do you have any suggestions for this?
2026-04-14 04:49:17
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Jennifer :
Makes so much sense. And it definitely doesn’t work for everyone. Hope you guys figure it out!
2026-04-03 20:01:14
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divas44 :
This is something I wanted but it never came to this, unfortunately.. that space without a filed divorce would have been transformational but he seemed insistent . Thank you for sharing
2026-03-30 22:09:20
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Fire Daughter 🔥🔥🔥 :
Yes I did the same thing
2026-05-12 05:50:37
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Mike Sisco :
We’re 6 weeks into separation. She hasn’t asked for a divorce. I have been super kind and respectful of space. Hoping we can both decide to do what you are doing! Thanks for inspiration.
2026-04-07 02:59:43
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Jenn :
I wish I had this before, but we didn’t go forward with the divorce. I am in individual therapy also couples therapy and he is the same. We’re both trying to clean up our side of the fence and come together.
2026-03-31 01:19:04
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Lifewithsophie :
Very well said. This video will touch a lot of lives
2026-03-30 15:24:28
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Gaza_mesha :
I just start my intentional separation
2026-03-31 19:28:24
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VallyHarp :
Are you going to do videos about the enabling and what you need to change?
2026-03-30 16:48:45
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AmesGenX :
Married 20 years. We've been separated twice...about 6-7 months each time. He came back but still claims to want divorce so we're basically in a mutual silent divorce. I notice the 'pressure' of the relationship is gone now and it feels good...if we/he decide not to file, I believe I can choose to choose, if not, I know I'll be ok too. indifference? detachment? either way, the relationship was awful and it feels good not having it. 😔
2026-03-31 00:27:09
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spottless350z :
Lucky
2026-04-07 13:52:04
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Christina :
Love this !!!!
2026-04-16 03:42:31
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Cassidymaray :
So what do I do?? He says he doesn’t know what he wants. I know he’s burnt out. I can’t just leave. I moved states for him.. we have babies together. How do I give him space without going back home?
2026-04-28 17:20:12
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Andrew beesmer :
Messaged you!
2026-03-31 00:28:31
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Cody Patterson :
Did you coexist during this time? Or live in separate homes?
2026-05-13 22:28:58
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Nikki Delaney :
My husband and I are going through something similar, but he recently said he views me more as a best friend and there’s isn’t an attraction anymore. We haven’t been intimate in over a year. Was that the same for anyone else?
2026-04-01 20:16:19
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DeRosa~C :
Same here month 7 😳 not easy but going good.
2026-04-07 00:14:04
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Kelly :
the coach is a very important decision the coach must understand what they are coaching
2026-03-30 21:17:35
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violinathena :
May I ask who moved out? How did it work with the kids?
2026-04-24 19:56:09
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