@mindful.by.b: it is much kinder to be clear with people about how you feel versus continue something you know isn’t working for you #breakups #breakupadvice #longtermrelationship #relationshipadvice
I’m sick to my stomach just trying to decide .. I’m afraid I may be making a mistake
2026-05-01 19:28:05
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Karlie 🪽 :
It’s because where am I gonna live and afford to live on my own 😢
2026-05-04 15:10:32
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🦋 :
I’ve tried to break up twice, and every time he somehow convinces me to stay. When we’re together for a while, I start feeling good again. But as soon as he leaves, the feeling comes back and I regret not following through. How do I know what I really want?
2026-03-31 21:35:29
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Hillary :
I keep telling him, but he won’t let me go
2026-03-31 15:48:33
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𝖒𝜶ŧŧ𝒊𝓮 :
If I leave him he has nothing and no one, we just moved states away from our family and friends. He still doesn’t have a job yet, he has one friend here who has a roommate already, who we’re actively making plans to move into a house with in the summer, but I’m so unhappy and bored. Idk what to do
2026-04-12 06:29:29
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Jess :
2 weeks out of a 3.5+ year relationship… I haven’t been this happy in literal years
2026-03-31 15:28:42
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Cristina :
11 years with this person, we grew up together. It’s been a month and he’s already moved on dating. I’m in pieces and I don’t know how to be okay.
2026-03-31 22:36:25
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ray :
we’ve been together since high school. back then i didnt really need much. i’m pretty independent. for a few years i continued to feel that way. now im 24 and i realize i want more of a man, provider, someone who WANTS to take care of me. he is not that person and i dont think he ever will be. i keep waiting to see if things will change but i know im just wasting my time. but we live together and have been together 6 years and i love him and his family and i just cant get myself to leave. i feel so stuck. my mind screams at me everyday that i need to leave but i just cant.
2026-04-19 05:22:30
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Racheal :
wondering if i dodged a bullet or just lost the love of my life 🥺
2026-05-13 00:45:58
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🎀Nicole🎀 :
Me right now.. 8 years, I’m in turmoil
2026-03-31 20:43:36
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🍯 🐝 :
Also be mindful of timing…like don’t dump them on or right before their birthday or Valentine’s Day etc
2026-03-30 22:47:10
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sun.shine.days :
what do you do when they don't want to break up, but also don't want to do the work to keep a relationship?
2026-04-24 20:54:19
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Jayye Renee :
Through txt it’s ok. But in person my partner makes me feel annoyed and irritated. I can’t be around them more than 2 days before they get in my nerves. I think maybe I’m just moody but idk
2026-04-27 20:31:50
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Morgan :
What if I made the wrong decision :(
2026-05-03 10:04:14
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mya_m___ :
Can I just send this to him.
2026-04-14 16:12:44
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sammy :
We have been tg for 2 years but he doesn’t do the bare minimum or love me out loud, I post him, plan dates all that stuff and he’s never the one to do so. He never takes pictures of us knowing that I love them but he’s not a bad guy I just don’t feel loved in our relationship anymore nor respected
2026-05-21 17:04:16
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user62344681857 :
I feel that I‘m losing myself
2026-04-05 17:01:52
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Haile | Attachment Coach :
Staying in a relationship out of pity isn't kindness, it's a slow-burn resentment. Clear is kind is the only way out for both of you.
2026-04-14 02:52:03
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Jázmin :
We've been together for almost half a year. I love him, but currently the relationship is a burden to me and I'm unhappy. I feel like I need to be alone, I can't commit yet. But I know I would miss him terribly if we weren't together. Should I leave? :(
2026-03-31 07:57:58
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Duchesne :
Thank you! I needed to hear this today. So true!
2026-03-30 21:09:39
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ashchx :
i’m on day one, when does it get better? I have never hurt this much in my life i’m actually scared!!!
2026-04-26 00:29:35
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beltsvilleprints :
Bro what the fuck how the fuck does tt know
2026-04-20 23:12:45
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Adela Garcia :
Kinda stuck
2026-03-30 22:04:15
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🌸Mojo🌸 :
But in the beginning it was all wonderful , won’t that just happen again, but just with a different person?
2026-04-27 23:02:04
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LazyDaisyWitchTarot :
I left 7 weeks ago, please listen to yourself and do what's best for you to anyone in the comments ❤️it will be okay
2026-03-31 09:40:05
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