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it’s actually exhausting being a people pleaser. Always saying sorry even if it isn’t my fault because i’m afraid i might hurt their feelings. It’s exhausting putting peoples’ feelings before mine, everyone keeps telling me “stop being a people pleaser, start treating them how they treated you” i tried, but i’m just not that person. I’m not heartless, I’m a people pleaser :)). No matter how hard i try to change myself, that “I’m sorry, please forgive me” will always be in me. I’ll always lower my pride just to please yours, and that’s who i am :(( It’s so hard to change when you’ve always been the softhearted people pleaser who always says sorry out of nowhere because you’re afraid. Afraid of hurting their feelings, afraid of making them feel hurt, Afraid of losing them to your pride. I will always be that girl who lowers her pride for others, who puts peoples’ feelings before her, the girl who’s first thought is “say sorry its your fault”. I’ve always been cautious of what i say or act because maybe what i said or how i acted somehow angered them or hurted them. I’m dating this boy, i always say sorry to him if i felt like i hurted/angered him, he said “it’s genuinely okay, but why are you always saying sorry?”. How can i tell him that his dating a people pleaser? How can i tell him that sorry is stuck in my vocabulary and will forever be.
2026-04-17 14:55:56