Benny
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Tuesday 31 March 2026 01:30:35 GMT
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Thaoser :
Inconsistency = lack of interest, hot and cold communication, no plans. Taking it slow = consistent and open communication, plans to see you
2026-03-31 01:51:20
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602492014778365 :
Ty Benny 💕 you’re the best for explaining this. I learn so much from you!
2026-03-31 13:17:59
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Carlu :
His messages had a delay like for 8 to 16hs.. so i mirror him.. so he started to reply like 24hs later, i mirror this too, and guess what? He delayed 48-72hs so my next move after seeing His behaivour was: bye bye👋🏻. Never answered. His attitude turn off my desire and bored me…
2026-03-31 19:45:58
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thehealingera914 :
Talking for 9 months we see each other 2-4 times a week. We both initiate phone calls/texts almost everyday. We have a great time together but he says he wants to move slow and not ready for relationship yet. Also my divorce is not finalized. We we good? Should I re evaluate the situation?
2026-03-31 06:28:30
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Lisa :
I wish I knew if he was taking it slow or just not interested. We text a couple times every day and see each other 1x every 1-2 weeks because we live over an hour away and have kids we have to deal with.
2026-03-31 01:59:53
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Kanyewestlover9111 :
I went on 8 dates over 2 months and he still wasnt ready for any type of label or dating exclusively so i just cut it off
2026-03-31 09:15:26
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Brook :
in the talking stage, if you like someone, should you stop talking to others to focus or keep talking to others? I fell in would need to focus on just 1 if i wanted something more than a hookup.
2026-04-13 19:59:47
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lee.onvideolens :
How do you know it's no longer just "taking slow"?
2026-04-01 15:55:09
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All Ears 82 :
Benny at this point.......
2026-03-31 09:55:32
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Wrenchmonkey :
we had good communication and it died out a week ago. he said he doesn't know if he will be free this week and initiated contact yesterday then said he was really tired and gave short replies. I think it's over.
2026-04-05 11:13:16
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The Cob Life :
what about 8 months in, text everyday but barely call, see each other once a week for about 3 hours each time and always at his house, never any real dates... even when ive asked for more intentional time and hes agreed but made no change. im so confused by him tbh
2026-04-13 02:20:12
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C A R L A 🦋 :
Cut someone off for the lack of consistency 👌🏽
2026-04-01 11:46:24
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Cecelia Less :
Truth be told, walk away and save yourself expectations creates dissapointment
2026-03-31 06:46:23
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KopiBara :
we talked everyday.. but hot&cold on his side.. 4 days with good morning/night+caring texts, and the other 3 days without. never really talked about something deep.. never really wanted to get to know me better.🤣 i dumped him, wasting my time
2026-04-02 20:21:04
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ladiielove616 :
Thank you!!! He’s so inconsistent and blames me
2026-04-05 18:48:47
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Jenesther :
oh I definitely needed to hear this. Thank you.
2026-03-31 01:43:44
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Dori 🇨🇦 :
thanks for clarifying
2026-03-31 01:39:10
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Tik Toker :
I like a slow burn
2026-03-31 11:05:24
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Timing is crazy
2026-04-01 01:59:19
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kayvera_ :
But what is too slow?
2026-03-31 02:13:37
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caitlincunninghammusic :
Yessss Benny 👏👏👏👏👏👏 🫶🫶🫶🫶
2026-03-31 02:39:55
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joelle :
See him about once a week for the past 6 weeks, usually spend 6/7 hours together each time. Both agreed we can see something real and serious forming between us. He said he isn’t ready for exclusiveness because he needs to get some things in order first and feels like he can only be his best self for me. Things seem so good and genuine but I’m so afraid it’s all a mirage but also don’t want to sabotage something good out of my fears
2026-04-19 22:38:21
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Ceece😎FDOMLD🤘🏻 :
Thoughts on long distance?
2026-03-31 03:47:25
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Kathy :
Great talk!!!...I learn so much truth🥰
2026-04-08 02:37:11
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Em :
Long Distance? High stress job? What should this look like day to day and when should the slow burn transition we’re at 8 months ..talking
2026-04-03 16:48:12
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