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maya papaya :
Being cheated on ruined me in a way I can’t even explain, and it has the potential to ruin my current relationship because I cannot trust him, I’m extremely hyper vigilant, and I continue to wonder what he could be capable of or what he could be hiding. It’s sad. I want to trust him and my future partners so badly but I can’t. I miss the old me
2026-03-31 21:13:09
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badbee_emilee :
Also, cheating so often happens without any actual physical act
2026-04-01 03:21:35
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skosula42 :
I found out about my now-ex husbands affair about 2½ months ago. It still feels UNREAL that it actually happened to me. I feel so angry at how he did this to me when he swore up and down that he would never. our whole 13 years together are now nothing to me. every memory I have with him is tainted and ruined. It's all just a black hole of me beeing fooled and tricked. there are no good memories left, it all feels like it did not matter AT ALL and that it was all a waste of time and for nothing.
2026-03-31 20:09:06
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hydrovirgo26 :
When I was cheated on in a long-term relationship where we co-owned a home the craziest thing was waking up one morning and realizing that I didn’t love him anymore, but I hated everything about him
2026-03-31 20:21:40
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Art Addict :
Emotional cheating does the same, because it's that breaking of trust, the lies, the secrecy, etc....
2026-04-10 21:39:02
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queenc_knows :
Everything you said I felt when going thru the aftermath of my ex’s affair. I will never thank him for it, but it did open my eyes that I was in a bad relationship with a not good person that I made excuses for why he wasn’t good - instead of opening my eyes to who he really was.
2026-03-31 13:27:08
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angelina_ballerina16 :
Finding out about my husband's affair with my best friend has fundamentally changed everything about me. I'm worried my future relationships will suffer because I am so hyper vigilant. I can show love, be in love, be having fun and in an instant snap to being totally avoidant and withdrawn. I feel like they took the best parts of me and turned me into 2 people in one body and I don't recognize neither of them.
2026-04-01 21:07:19
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Bhhgrll :
For me it feels like a bad dream I can’t wake u from. I miss that man, because he is not the same person
2026-04-02 20:26:33
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𝒩𝒾𝓀𝓀𝒾🦊 :
i’m trying. i don’t wanna leave him.
2026-05-07 11:00:58
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Jess :
I’m in the “I definitely would have tried” phase. I’m realizing how easy it is to confuse self-abandonment for effort at times. Thank you for this, needed it today!
2026-03-31 14:08:56
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MomE :
my husband told me that he is in a relationship with another woman. after he saw my tears, he still continued. it's been 3 months. how do I deal with this? I didn't find out about it, he told me.
2026-04-03 11:37:22
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Alison Gunn :
The worst of it is you’ll expend all this energy on someone who wasn’t thinking about you at all. It’s tremendously unfair. ❤️🩹
2026-03-31 19:47:33
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bri 🫶🏾 :
its a lil over a year since i found out i was being cheated on by my ex and to this DAY it genuinely gets embarrassing when i think abt the fact that i was completely delusional in where our relationship was. the two realities thing is SO real and its daunting how clearly different those realities become once the truth abt the cheating comes to light
2026-03-31 21:39:47
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Antoinette 💕🎤 :
I’m day 20 post discovery. I feel so broken. Some days I want him and some days I don’t. And the days I don’t, I feel like I can’t breathe. The days I do, I smile. It’s so weird.
2026-04-02 00:07:10
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makennathansen :
its insane that someone could have treated me so insanely well and been cheating for so long... it makes me wonder if it was all love bombing so I wouldnt notice...
2026-04-02 16:25:18
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𝕪𝕒𝕣𝕟𝕖𝕤𝕤𝕒🧶 :
I have so much rage about the situation. How could he do that to our family. I’m trying so hard to learn how to control my emotions properly. It’s so difficult.
2026-04-03 14:18:43
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Blessed Hen :
yes💔
2026-03-31 14:44:38
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Jenna💅 :
Dude this just happened to me and I totally agree the before and after
2026-04-01 16:49:39
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_e :
Yes….
2026-04-04 02:31:54
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🅢🅔🅛🅚🅔🅨 :
Girl im gonna start crying at work
2026-05-07 20:57:29
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Tom Foolery :
Question: How did discovery or disclosure of the affair(s) happen in your case?
2026-03-31 22:47:42
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AnaisUGCCreator :
Feel crazy rn it’s only been week 1
2026-04-03 04:07:04
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Lizzie :
This this this
2026-04-02 09:02:15
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sam 📖✨ :
this
2026-04-04 00:06:23
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✨mom era✨ :
you have such good perspective on this, thank you for sharing!
2026-04-06 08:25:33
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