@mr_easyday: Dating at 40… AM I THE PROBLEM or… Have we over adjusted and standards are way off for “healthy relationships”? @Angela Simmons had an interview and while I respect all opinions it’s interesting how many single women are eating up the advice from… OTHER SINGLE WOMEN 👀. And I’m sure I’m going to get the “if you’re broke just say that” 😂 and be prepared for me to respond when you do 👀. Let’s hear your thoughts 💭 on how we start shifting this or what you’re doing to help! Fellas give the fellas advice and ladies give the ladies advice. #DatingAt40 #DatingAdvice #datingstorytime #datingtalk #fyp

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stacey.mcwhorter0
Stacey McWhorter :
What I realized is that everyone is not dating to marry.... I'm 45 and divorced and many others are divorced as well.. you just have to be intentional about what you want and dont make time for distractions... and just entertain who is dating purposely and aligning with what you want....
2026-03-31 15:44:04
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abuggzlife
Shantell N°5| Fragrance & Chat :
I didn’t watch the Angela Simmons interview either. But I saw clips. I didn’t get that from it. Gotti is a known trick 🥴. He even raps about it. It makes him feel good to spend money on women. I don’t think he saw her as a liability. She has her own money too. I think in their dynamic that’s ALL he had to offer. He loves women and unfortunately I think he’s not going to settle down until he’s super old and/or without clout. I think that’s a phenomenon that a lot of regular women deal with too. A lot of men want you to prove your worth as a ‘wife,’ with little to anything to offer. Women are expected to perform and audition and men have nothing to offer but money (not all are in therapy like you). No self develop. For me, idk I have to put myself out there more to truly asses the dynamics. But I’ve run into the aforementioned too. Men spend their 20s and 30s chasing money (and tail), then get to my age and have nothing to offer but money. Then be flabbergasted that women want the money they show off and use as their dating bait. And as unpopular as it is to say this, women take it because a lot of men are only good at throwing money. In today’s climate you actually have to be a good person and hold a conversation and I think a lot of men are the last to know this. Yeah this was long, but I want to make videos discussing this, but I don’t want the male attention lol, so I like these conversations.
2026-03-31 14:40:50
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elangelito499
Marie :
I don’t need anything fancy from a date honestly, I just want to get to know someone naturally. A simple coffee date, good conversation, and seeing if we vibe feels perfect to me. When I’m in a relationship, I’m the type to genuinely show up for my person and spoil them in my own ways but I also value that energy being mutual. For me, it’s less about money and more about effort, consistency, and making each other feel secure. What I really want is emotional safety. I want to be able to talk openly, be honest, and not feel judged for it. I want transparency, reassurance, and a connection where we both feel secure with each other. I also want to build something fun, traveling, laughing, experiencing life together but at the core, I want peace. A relationship where I can just be myself and feel safe in it. I guess I’m just a true lover girl at heart, and sometimes dating today feels a little overwhelming because I know what I give and I just haven’t found my person yet. Apparently it’s a lot to ask for 😫
2026-03-31 20:22:52
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marlenam30
marlenam30 :
I’m a bit older, 60, became single 8 years ago. The dating pool is complete crap……it’s terrible.
2026-03-31 14:21:35
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tiffanycodingandlife
tiffanycodingandlife :
Real self reflection is key. We have to stop looking at everyone else and focus on self. After you’ve spent time with yourself, you have a better idea of what you truly want, need and desire from relationships.
2026-04-21 14:34:35
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ms..stevens49
Ms. Stevens :
Me watching your stories 🤣🤣🤣
2026-04-23 11:05:11
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whoopchiefof
whoopchiefof :
I’m 38 & I hadn’t been in relationship yet. I took time to learn myself, and my capacity. I would like to be married for companionship and partnership in business & family. Dating is mix bag for me.
2026-05-15 14:48:41
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dopeinpurpose
dopeinpurpose :
Self-reflection and real, intentional therapy are the foundation. Doing the hard work on yourself before jumping back into dating is necessary. Most of us over 40 have been through marriage, parenthood, or both—and with that often comes unresolved trauma. For others, it’s childhood wounds that were never fully addressed. All of that can shape unhealthy patterns, thoughts, and behaviors. Mental health is often overlooked, but it’s something each of us has to take seriously. When you truly do that inner work, clarity and understanding follow. At the end of the day, money isn’t what sustains a relationship. When life happens—whether it’s illness, hardship, or unexpected challenges—money and material things lose their value. What really matters is respect and the commitment you’ve made to each other. Personally, I don’t need gifts or flashy gestures. I need consistency. I need someone who shows up. Supports me, believe in my businesses and dreams, and be present. Be emotionally intelligent. That’s what matters. Because when that foundation is solid, everything else—including success and wealth—is something we can build together.
2026-03-31 14:21:29
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mskle93
K E :
Kevin Samuel’s was saying the same thing your saying lol … I think ppl simple need to have conversations about morals, values, and principles on first dates. If they don’t align walk away. Bc that vacation means nothing if you can’t even hold a conversation during it
2026-04-01 02:30:04
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ley096000
Ash :
It’s rough!
2026-04-01 19:29:29
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jackielynnburnett
MizzB :
Literally just want my best friend for real just wanna travel and eat
2026-05-25 02:16:36
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lc_xox13
LC ✨ :
The point of this whole journey is to learn how to love yourself, not finding the love of your life
2026-04-01 23:22:15
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curlyhairmixedgir
curlyhairmixedgirl :
Social media is both good and bad. It connects us to people we would have never connected with but it also gives us the accessibility to people. It’s easy to let the current person go because they think the next “swipe” will be better. I would much rather get a small token because you listened vs a “bag”. Last date I went on I brought him fresh pressed juice because he was new to town and couldn’t find any. He was so surprised I remembered and brought him a gift.
2026-03-31 23:26:04
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amandajocarver
Amanda 😊 :
Divorced and in my 40’s, the dating world is tough. I just someone to say what they mean & mean what they say & follow that up with action! I don’t need gifts. I want time and attention. Id be happy cuddled up on the couch watching a movie.
2026-04-05 14:05:43
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iamtoyacunningham
Toya | Lifestyle Architect :
First, what up doe. Second, at 44, I’ve have some real serious conversations with myself that I’ve rarely ever had a slow burn relationship that built a foundation. I realized I was the love bomber! Trying to get to point B fast without knowing them frfr. Now Im making a valiant effort to just get to know them as a friend and a man. Then if we decide we like each other, we’ll move to the next level.
2026-03-31 15:24:12
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rachaelbossio
Rachael Benavides :
Love this & love this series. Absolutely resonates with me.
2026-04-01 23:31:50
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traceemillsscaggs
Monique :
I agree with everything you said 1,000%!
2026-03-31 21:41:45
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thee_ari
Ari :
I never imagined this series would be this long lol
2026-04-28 14:51:56
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aunfilteredtruths
Behave :
It is both
2026-04-01 00:02:22
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lisaweinstein41
LiLi2719 :
Amen
2026-04-02 01:35:10
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iam_nikilinear
Niki Linear :
WHEWWW THIS WAS WORTH THE LISTEN🔥
2026-04-01 21:53:41
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catdashmobile
Yo EP :
I don’t need gifts, I need alignment and chemistry and shared trust and respect.
2026-04-05 20:40:55
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blessedami1
Laurie Erickson858 :
Real talk… good reflection
2026-06-27 00:52:27
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browneyedbeauty_13
🥀BrownEyedBeauty_13🥀 :
Fyp 💙
2026-04-06 00:02:43
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mamanay1487
Mama Nay14 :
I have accepted that I'm most likely going to be single forever.
2026-04-22 18:23:50
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