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Alana :
I get worried that me crying is me accidentally manipulating him, because I really don't mean it in that way
2026-04-07 01:25:36
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idek :
i hate being a crybaby, it feels so pick me when i for things that im in the wrong for, im not manipulating anyone.. i just hate that for myself
2026-04-01 21:34:16
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sumsum :
I know its gonna be hard to hear but we HAVE to learn how to control our emotions. Thats emotional maturity. That includes when its appropriate to cry. Its a trait we CAN unlearn.
2026-04-02 00:47:20
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🕸️ :
THIS. Because after he feel s bad when I cry but it’s not the subject and I can’t express to him how much i regretted to hurt him
2026-04-01 19:49:12
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jordan :
I struggle with this too, what helps me is pretending to be a therapist instead of a gf. Helps you get out of the situation a little, focus on his needs
2026-03-31 21:37:30
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Raffi_the_Quokka :
if he wants to comfort you no matter what the source of your pain is think he loves you a lot
2026-04-01 18:04:16
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Jess :
This was quite literally me today and I feel like such an attention seeker and manipulator. I don’t want him to feel guilty about my guilt. Like why can’t I just take any criticism and move on.
2026-04-30 03:39:57
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Caitlin🩷 :
I straight up tell him "ignore the tears, just keep talking to me like nothings wrong. if you acknowledge the tears I will freeze" 😭
2026-04-03 09:25:00
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🌀 :
this. im not crying because i want your comfort or for you to feel bad, im crying because your the one person i dont wanna hurt and then i did the guilt eats me alive
2026-05-28 22:10:47
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_xoxoness :
I pray he can forgive me and still see that future we planned❤️🩹
2026-04-01 18:19:19
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Carl Smith :
I don't think I've ever said "you hurt or upset me" and it didn't end with me consoling them and apologizing at the end of it.
2026-04-04 00:57:07
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mean Dean :
as you grow up you'll come to terms with your emotions
2026-03-31 20:51:10
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krist :
I hate that I either break down and cry or get angry it’s like there’s no in-between and I never want to hurt him or come off like I need the attention or whatever, I just genuinely have really deep feelings which is why I cry
2026-04-02 06:52:38
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Big papa :
I hate when this happens, because I’m supposed to be doing the comforting not getting comforted. Bc what if it makes him resent me, when in reality I just express myself through cry and want to change what’s hurting him
2026-05-10 12:30:42
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yel_00 :
:did him dirty twice🥺I apologized we didn't quite clear the air but everything got back to normal gradually. still wanted to talk about it but he doesn't want me to bring it up. and now I said something silly in a humorous way and he said I had a bad character and proceeded to remind me of the past😔 I don't know if I should walk away because I can't even stand the guilt but I wish him well
2026-05-05 15:22:45
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No_name :
sometimes im scared that im subconsciously trying to manipulate him and im like my mother but I just have too much empathy and my emotions overpower me
2026-04-25 02:05:51
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abe :
It’s a beautiful thing that you’re this aware in the first place. That’s a good thing and just be aware that you’ll continue to build a nice future with him
2026-04-01 23:18:10
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mckenna gobin :
oh i’m not hungry
2026-05-08 06:35:56
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talia :
omg literally i feel sooo selfish
2026-04-08 01:17:19
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sav :
You need to say it. Say “don’t comfort me we are talking about your hurt”
2026-04-21 19:56:23
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Esinam ❤️ :
so now I don't cry when he's around I cry in secret and I'm making an effort to not hurt him anymore
2026-04-08 10:35:10
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ash 🎱🍒🐆 :
never felt something so deep in my soul.
2026-04-04 04:22:58
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..~ ⋆˚𝜗𝜚˚⋆..°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:･ ~.. :
oh i’m not hungry.
2026-04-30 13:22:26
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ChaseDarling :
as the one on the other side of this, I recommend to think of yourself as a therapist when they tell you they're hurt. becuz it's extremely frustrating to BE hurt, approach you calmly, and end up comforting you rather than receiving it
2026-04-19 05:25:04
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