I don’t think people understand intent≠ impact even if you aren’t being malicious it’s still abusive behavior that needs to be corrected
2026-04-02 01:02:19
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mitski supremacy :
your honesty is rare
2026-04-01 17:13:38
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piscesinpieces__ :
You’re the only other one i have heard say this! We ARE abusive and i have noticed it in my behaviors in my healthy relationship. I am working so hard to change it because it’s emotionally exhausting!!! For both. I justhad to reallyput myself inmybfs shoes. (I also have been in different types of abusive relationships) so i was really able to tell what i needed to work on 😭😭😭
2026-04-02 17:53:46
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🖤LV🖤 :
Personally being in a relationship has made me feel the most unhealed version of myself. I want to work at it but idk how I cry a lot about it tho
I have BPD and now i see i was emotionally abusiv to my ex partner, i didn’t intend to be because i really loved him and cared for him. Now i am tacking responsibility and try to better myself so i can have a healthy relationship in the future. I also plan on getting in contact with him and apologizing for so many things i did
2026-04-02 14:34:11
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Michael Allen :
as mental health worker i cant believe the level of insight and accountability. you've given me hope. i need to show my clients your video
2026-04-02 06:19:40
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Gigi🎀 :
its so hard knowing that i was unintentionally hurting people before i got diagnosed😭all i can do now is take accountability and know that i wont do it again
2026-04-01 01:10:54
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Dr Pepper mamii 𓉸ྀི :
As someone with BPD, it took me YEARS to admit to myself that I could be the abuser. And when I finally took that control, it’s amazing how much better my relationships gotten. I was in denial for a long timmmme. Thanks for bringing this up. 🥰 Proud of you
2026-04-05 19:19:06
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Lana Del Rey enthusiast :
I have gad and OCD. I loved your honesty and self awareness. I have also been verbally abusive towards others bc of my anxiety. The guilt is hard to deal with sometimes.
2026-04-02 00:49:52
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kameron𖣂 :
i hate that im like this.
2026-05-22 06:00:13
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tiggles47 :
this hit really hard from being on the other end of BPD in a relationship. It was hard to forgive someone that never apologized, trying to understand it.
I'm glad you're acknowledging it and working towards understanding. I also appreciate you explaining the other side of things. It helps.
2026-04-07 11:23:53
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yukki :
this is by far the most relatable video i have ever found
2026-04-24 15:17:29
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leavemealone98712 :
wish my friend had this insight
2026-04-02 21:25:00
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logan09061 :
THANK YOU, SOMEONE FINALLY SAID IT👏👏👏👏
2026-04-06 21:22:31
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em🎀🍒🐈⬛ :
as someone with bpd as well, this honesty is refreshing. i’m genuinely terrified of being in a relationship and i don’t think i will be until i heal more because i don’t want to become abusive like i know i would. i appreciate you so much <3
2026-04-04 22:49:11
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Kasey👽 :
god i have horrible stories. I still have so much shame and remorse for my actions.
2026-04-02 03:34:00
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CrazyAboutYou :
You got this💯
2026-04-06 20:06:50
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AstronautRadDude :
I was soooo manipulative and I feel so awful for it. I was a BAD BAD person I worked on it I’m not great but I’m better and I’m trying
2026-04-19 01:04:20
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nenny :
thanx for taking accountability.
2026-04-02 02:10:13
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MissyRye :
please allow repost?
2026-04-11 23:00:33
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Prana Ray :
Thank you so much for vocalizing this
2026-04-01 00:05:28
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Elle M A O💫 :
You are the first BPD creator I’ve seen that is this open and honest. I’ve been this honest with therapist, but it’s hard to open up publicly about how abusive we can be to the people in our lives. I am proud of the fact I’ve never lied or romanticized my disorder to those around me, but it sucks that I’ve isolated myself so much out of fear that I could be abusive again. You’ve given me the courage to try to put myself out there more and just be honest. Thank you!
2026-05-20 01:45:22
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Jen :
I have BPD and I destroyed my relationship I had. I was like a tornado in a trailer park. Thank you for your honestly
2026-04-05 15:12:29
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