@juliecarstairs: You will attract different and BETTER people when focus on self improvement and you are secure in all areas of your life. Then if you are dating to be chosen or to fill a void. Focus on self improvement and getting to where you want to be and then come back and tell me how much more confident you feel. #SelfImprovement #datingadvice #dating #datingtips

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adriverse_
Adriverse :
Heavy on make sure you’re happy in ALLL areas of your life
2026-04-02 01:17:22
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nataliazielinski
Natalia Zielinski :
Taxi cab theory
2026-04-03 23:30:08
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joanuh.xo
Jo❤️‍🔥 :
This is honestly the best advice I’ve heard in such a long time
2026-04-02 17:06:29
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chloe.parrett
chlo :
Needed this thanks queen
2026-04-01 06:25:18
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juliecarstairs
Julie Carstairs :
Thoughts on this theory?
2026-04-01 04:47:54
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alyselanaynay
Alyse | shop, travel, beauty :
I agree 100%, except the part that I was NOT financially stable. I had a great job BUT owed 60k in debt. Had I waited until I was financially stable I would have passed him up. He actually helped me get OUT of debt by having a serious convo about my spending habits. So I do agree but do think sometimes ppl can help you grow & be better.
2026-04-03 01:41:28
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tywkendall
tywkendall :
Don’t agree with picking the one that’s infront of me. If I meet someone and if I judge this on everyone I’ve ever had a fling with or dated, I’ve known within 10 minutes if something will ever materialize sort of subconsciously. I would never pick someone cuz they are just infront of me. They have to hit my vibe/energy only in that case am I picking the one infront of me.
2026-04-14 15:42:47
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zoe_ziaullah0
zoe :
i need a -2 slow down to listen to this
2026-04-05 06:39:01
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sahraaminii
Sahra :
Yes cause it’s also pushing me to get to my goals faster hehe
2026-05-05 08:09:38
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crystalfreakinlee
Crystal Lee Gonzalez :
Sprinkle sprinkle ✨ I live by this
2026-04-04 16:41:12
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trashygonzo
trashygonzo :
what if I feel that it’s never gonna be the right time :(
2026-04-02 04:27:46
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beccaaschmecca
Becca Schmecca :
Taxi cab theory
2026-04-08 14:26:52
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taylor.frasca
taylor frasca :
This
2026-04-01 04:55:33
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david_mcchesney
Dave Mcchesney :
Great tips
2026-04-02 01:45:13
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mmmack16
Mack :
LOVE THIS AND LOVE YOU YES
2026-04-02 23:36:29
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savannah__buckman
savvy❤️‍🔥 :
Glasses babe? 😍
2026-04-02 00:59:41
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feelmynurseness13
Ginger Hearted 💜 :
Love you’re honesty and bluntness here, thank you 💜💜
2026-04-05 01:54:54
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xsakshi
sakshi ♡ :
I needed to hear this
2026-04-01 09:56:41
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imogen.corker
911 what’s your imogency :
Great advice
2026-04-03 10:46:01
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littyleah15
Littyleah :
Ugh thank u queen 💗💗
2026-04-01 23:01:20
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princess58286
Princess :
Thank you I needed to hear this today 😔
2026-04-01 22:36:17
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datinglifewithkat
datinglifewithkat :
Ohh I love this 👏
2026-07-04 19:18:41
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angiehawkins_
Angie Hawkins :
So good!! 👏🏼👏🏼
2026-06-19 00:56:31
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talia_tells_
Talia_tells_ :
Everyone needs to hear this
2026-06-19 18:35:02
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ash.waking
ash.waking :
Omg yes this is such good advice
2026-06-17 15:10:11
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