ZEE :
My own Home girl start up company I no know, Got engaged and married I don't know, If I wasn't married maybe I will think it's because I'm single so she is just being careful. I call and chat her everyday, I literally tell her everything.we don't stay in d same State but I carry her along on even d irrelevant things.she knows what I will cook,if I'm going out,what I will wear, when I'm on my period, if I'm having any issues, my entire house set up, if I have new ideas,if I have money or not.she knws my entire house people. her mom and siblings are in another state but I call her mum and siblings regularly even if me and her are quarrelling, I sometimes even send the money.i don't wait for her birthday to gift her, she even suggested I include China important to my skincare business and I immediately agreed and dropped the plan I already have to expand my business. I took d little savings I had and all d money I could get from my skincare business,sent to her cos she is into importation so I was very relaxed.what she told me would take 5weeks is a year and two months now, I haven't gotten my money or d things I paid for after d first but I got 7months ago which is like 20% of d things I paid for. friendship gone without a fight, explanation, reason,rumors or apology. almost 3 million gone without explanation or remorse. suddenly I came across her video on tiktok launching a company a walk in office.a travel agency. I got to know and wedding through a mutual friend. I invested so much physically, Emotionally and financially in this friendship for 4years. I love deeply and take friendships so seriously that I cannot have another friend of I'm friends with u and I don't really care of you have other friends besidese
all I see is u and i. I even asked her if I did anything or if there is a problem but I never got any explanation so I had to find a way to move on and heal without an apology or closure. the fact that I can't even take any measures to get my thongs or money back cos I still don't want to hurt her feelings. I will never allow myself be this vulnerable in any friendship ever again. I wish her all d best and I have learnt my many lessons.
2026-04-01 14:10:39