@hello.im.rebecca.owen: No one prepares women for this stage of life. The moment you pause and realise how much of your life was built around everyone else. The roles. The expectations. The constant giving. And somewhere along the way… you lost touch with yourself. But this isn’t a breakdown. And it’s not something to fear. This is the moment everything starts to shift. Because when you become aware of it…you can no longer unsee it. And awareness is where your awakening begins. #selfawareness #womenempowerment #HealingJourney #midlifewomen #innerwork
Im there right now and it sure feels like a crisis
2026-04-01 22:04:22
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Michelle🥥🌴 :
That's why the song Landslide hits different at this age
2026-04-03 02:09:07
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destinecabin :
My mother played the song landslide on repeat so I think I was prepared
2026-04-01 23:19:57
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Obscure Wishes :
well, ive been afraid of change, cause I built my life around you...
2026-04-01 20:04:49
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norealnamehere :
Me right now. Everyone says find a hobby but I don’t even know what I like uugghh
2026-04-02 02:50:58
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Rachel (arcana7) :
My two kids are now 18 and 19 I know they don’t need me any more but it’s still hard to let go when I have dedicated 19 years to them even home schooled them in their final years at school. Now I don’t know who I am any more I have no idea which way to go. I have a husband massively struggling with mental health. I feel completely drained of energy menopause is kicking my ass too !! How do I learn to love myself again 🥺
2026-04-04 07:42:44
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LgRojas :
After 16 years of being a stay at home mom raising an 16 ,11 and 8 years old ,I found myself feeling not sure what to do with myself the time they are at school,I don’t know what I like or want out of live and I don’t know if I have a personality! I don’t remember when I got something that I actually love to wear or do something for myself,I can’t go out without my kids because I constantly thinking about them or wondering how are they doing? Are they alright? They need me right now? And I have to come back home to feel better.
2026-04-02 16:23:19
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Beverly Jacqueline :
I understand this mentality, but my (now adult) children are worth every ounce of the effort and I feel grateful that they still enjoy spending so much time with me.
2026-04-01 16:43:50
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Rikke_HK :
I have never known who I was. I always remember having to cater for my parents, sibling, friends and now my own family. Now I'm very aware that this is the case. I'm so fuming mad at them and myself. I think I scare everyone because I'm so mad. I have no hobbies. I just want to be alone and only care for myself. How do I get out of this 😫?
2026-04-05 10:15:18
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Tracey_Mac :
Today I ordered myself something that I didn’t have to justify in my head, that I wanted just because. I didn’t think of the cost it was just because I wanted it
2026-04-02 05:28:11
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Nettie :
yep my youngest just moved out about 4 months ago and I'm all alone now. I'm so lost and my work is my only outing. I have no clue what I'm supposed to do now 😭
2026-04-02 04:13:10
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Kellie Lovell522 :
Abso fucking lutley 52 yrs old and living my life for me on the weekends now
2026-04-02 11:40:23
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Cat Bee :
Ok. Now what? It’s a serious question, how do I remember who I am? What am I without catering to my surroundings? Because right now, all I want and need is sleep. Distraction, Ignorance, just everybody leave me alone. I don’t want this to be permanent. Its kinda nice, but so fucking lonely.
2026-04-04 23:28:36
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Tash Norris :
God this hit hard! 2 years ago I had a break down! My last baby ( I have 4) went to school, my son turned 18! My other daughter got a house and I turned 40! All because I had no idea who I was anymore was hard to hear
2026-04-03 05:15:11
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Windy Poston Queen :
I thought I was the only one who had no clue what she likes! This feels like a crisis, I’m tired of surviving day to day and not really living.
2026-04-14 12:45:27
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Unfilteredcreative :
Totes!! I’ve been realising it for years, and I finally said no more! But it is SO hard, and SO confronting.. and a full awakening shining light on every part of my life so far 👏🏻🫶🏻🦋
2026-04-01 12:12:45
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MimosaMom🇨🇦 :
YESSSS! feeling stuck lost and afraid.
2026-04-01 17:48:03
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westcoastbaby1913 :
Yes! I woke up to that realization and I’ve changed myself 100%. It was a terrifying moment of clarity. Now, I have boundaries, I started up with my own interests, I have eliminated people in my life who have no respect to my boundaries, I learned to value my worth, I learned the word “no” and meant it, I let go of the control seat…so many good things. It’s been really tough to do, but the benefits are amazing.
2026-04-01 14:03:23
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katherine_witha_k :
Me right now I can’t find myself
2026-04-01 19:10:28
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Nighs :
So true! I’ve been mom for 23 years, now I can be me!! ❤️
2026-04-01 19:07:46
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heatherhollidaymaxwell :
me 👋
2026-05-04 21:28:39
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Anjanette | Author & Coach :
so true. and in the meantime we lost ourselves.
2026-07-23 13:40:05
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Nic ❌ :
Absolutely 💯
2026-09-23 22:19:54
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carricreates :
Oooh
2026-07-08 11:33:18
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pumpkin6!! :
thats where i am now at 52 and divorced. yup working on me now
2026-06-25 11:18:00
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