Opallauryn
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Angie | Womanhood Awakened :
Ooof this is so triggering. The constant “debates” over listening, changing, and resolution. It’s no way to live
2026-04-01 17:57:20
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Nikki 🇨🇦 :
“I cannot teach someone how to love me, and I don’t want too” damn.
2026-04-01 18:54:59
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This Is Your Mother Speaking :
Even with the tiniest things I would try to "vent" to him, he couldn't just validate me, it was always about what I did wrong in that situation... I stopped talking to him about literally anything.
2026-04-01 16:10:54
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frugalhousewife :
I have ended up Googling "how did people in arranged marriages in the old days meet their emotional needs?" and "what did nobles in the Middle Ages do since they didn't expect romantic love?" things like that 💔
2026-04-01 19:20:43
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Ashley :
I knew I carried the emotional load, and I expressed that I wanted help, and then I wound up carrying the emotional load OF carrying the emotional load. 😅
2026-04-01 16:58:15
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deb_o :
It ended up always with me apologizing to him and then he would want to be alone
2026-04-04 00:23:05
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sxlucxlle :
Girl we sound like we’ve been living the same life
2026-04-01 18:49:58
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Jac :
I don't talk to him at all now because he'll just shove away any worry, concern, thought or feeling. Either with silence or invalidation. There is no place for comfort there, just burden. I bypass him entirely.
2026-04-01 22:35:59
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Roxy :
the having to explain my POV in the most articulate way or he will focus on my tone or the words themselves and not the emotion behind it. he will acknowledge how I feel after the defense and still nothing changes. it does feel like im something he has to manage not love.
2026-04-23 02:24:41
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✨Kathy✨🇲🇽💙💜🩷 :
I feel this too hard and I can see that my partner hasn’t worked through a lot of their past and emotions and so it’s really hard for me to bring up my own
2026-04-01 17:37:00
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how did u get here :
i’m wlw & i feel this way about my partner
2026-04-22 03:32:52
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Reigneth :
Having to argue the validity of your feelings is the worstttt. So exhausting.
2026-04-02 14:22:46
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FeralTxnMoonMamma :
13 years of this
2026-04-01 17:38:57
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Kaitlin Kleehammer :
Totally agree but I’m distracted by the mug because I have the same Bobby Flay set from Kohl’s circa 2013 lol
2026-04-01 17:30:39
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Lysa Shimkus :
I too carried the emotional load for 7 yrs w/the ex-husband. I was exhausted. After divorce my mental clarity returned & I never want him back.
2026-04-01 15:03:33
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Victorious Soul :
The DEBATING was absolutely psychotic when I was in it. I feel you girl. 🤍
2026-04-22 11:25:21
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R :
oh shit not Lauryn calling me out again. sooo 16 yrs of this is fun.
2026-04-21 23:40:54
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Taylor :
From one parentified kid to another, I just wanted to say your videos have helped me process my own relationships and validate my experiences so much. Watching your content often feels like looking into a mirror. Thank you for sharing, and may we both continue to heal and grow and one day find our emotional match!! ❤️
2026-04-01 13:17:44
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Savannah 💕 :
Yes yes yes
2026-04-16 15:53:56
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𝖘𝖔𝖋𝖎𝖆🗝️ :
not having a very good day friend cause i am in that situation now but thank you i feel understood at least
2026-04-01 14:17:47
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kimberleyroya :
could you make a video talking about how you broke up with them?
2026-04-01 18:17:33
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Opallauryn :
Yes- I did blame this on him being a double Virgo for years 🙃
2026-04-01 13:08:54
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Emily :
The way this is my life right now. Like almost exactly. There would only be one change to what you have said. When speaking about learning emotions through a volatile family, I didn't learn emotions. I learns how to weather them.
2026-04-29 18:07:12
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Zia Babe :
Felt
2026-04-01 19:45:28
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Emily :
My vulnerabilities were weaponized against me to bring me down when she was upset. So I learned to carry everything alone.
2026-04-21 16:34:14
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