@therapistinrecovery: With OCD, information is NOT power-its a prison. Acceptance of the unknown is hands-down, the single most important philosophy to buy into if you want to recover from your OCD. It doesn’t mean liking the unknown, but it does mean surrendering to it. As completely as you can. Because it’s there whether we accept it or not. But immense freedom from OCD lives in this space of acceptance and I’ve seen it time and time again. There is no shortcut or bypassing this. Not to mention, when we disengage (over and over and over again) from the cycle of ocd, our energy is no longer being put towards trying to control what we can’t (ie uncertainty). And then we are free to move towards what really matters and what we actually can control - our values in the moment. Stay tuned for more videos on this and other OCD tips. #ocdtok #acceptance #exposuretherapy #ocd #obsessivecompulsivedisorder

Rachael DeKoning, LCMFT, LAC
Rachael DeKoning, LCMFT, LAC
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kiwihynjn
kiwihynjn :
My OCD is named Linda and I tell her often “IDK Linda, you’re asking questions idk the answers to and that are none of my business. Let’s just see what happens together, shall we?”
2026-04-02 13:02:58
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coyecoberly
Coye :
ChatGPT is tired of me
2026-04-14 23:59:50
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therapyursa
Ursa LMSW :
Intolerance of Uncertainty is actually the worst 😭
2026-04-01 19:31:18
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enchantedbookshelf24
Amelia :
My brain immediately “well that just won’t do”
2026-04-02 03:20:11
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omanitsheather
OhManAHobbit :
I don't want to live with my brain anymore.
2026-04-04 16:03:40
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user4442970669317
paul :
Turning the “what if” into “even if.”
2026-04-02 19:52:37
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onthecouchwitholi
OnTheCouchWithOliver :
OCD convinces you that if you just find the right answer, you’ll finally feel okay. Treatment works in the opposite direction — learning to sit with not knowing. That’s what makes it so hard and so effective at the same time. 🐾
2026-04-02 01:22:41
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ohhey.christina
ohhey.christina :
I get this but my "what if" is awful. I don't want to chance it. 😭😭 I mean I know this makes sense, I know that my brain is tricking me, but I can't let go. It's exhausting and I'm so tired.
2026-05-31 06:00:25
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rlybighorse
rly :
My therapist taught me the “well that would suck” response and it’s been LIFE CHANGING. “What if unless I memorize this specific poem, the plane is going to crash” “well that would suck” shuts it down so well for me.
2026-05-16 20:44:15
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y.elina
elina yalomist :
I genuinely can’t tho. It ruins my entire day if I don’t. If I get some reassurance, at least I can function. (I have rocd)
2026-04-03 11:20:34
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dannyn_12
d :
this is so hard with harm ocd, bc i kinda need to know if im an awful horrible person or not
2026-05-06 04:20:26
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morganmmmmmm11
morganmmmmmm11 :
I also love telling myself “you worry way too much for someone who has figured it out every single time”
2026-04-22 03:15:45
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camillemaddox
Camille Maddox :
I have raging health anxiety (ocd??) and it was making me miserable. A few years ago I made a rule to NEVER research symptoms, and that decision changed my life.
2026-04-02 05:38:08
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kimberly_8170
Kimberly :
Such a simple concept but oh so hard when you have OCD. 😞
2026-04-01 18:08:01
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calicrochetscorner
Cali💙🏳️‍🌈 :
"we'll cross that bridge when we get there" 😭
2026-04-01 19:25:49
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ileanmasterson
Eileen 🧡 :
I am in no way cured, but one of my biggest mantras I tell myself when I fall into an OCD loop is “it doesn’t f***ing matter!!!” Lmao. I guess that is my own little version of this.
2026-05-28 12:14:15
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shandawg_5
Shan :
“Keep it moving” has been my mantra when I start to dwell on something.
2026-04-02 01:58:22
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emnicholle
e :
i love to tell myself “if that happens, i’ll deal with it”
2026-05-05 12:08:38
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toxic.mermaid
Kaylie<3 :
the past couple months ive been saying "Girl whatever🙄" outloud to myself, its silly but it works!
2026-04-14 22:54:54
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solacesoulless
SolaceSoulless :
“I’ll figure it out when I get there” has been my go to lately! I have a lot of anxiety around planning trips, even just 20 minutes away, if I haven’t been there before. I tend to avoid going new places if I don’t have a good idea about parking and how to get to the destination.
2026-04-01 20:22:59
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alien7337
Alien7337 :
This just gave me anxiety
2026-04-05 02:58:42
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courtneyymalchow
courtneyymalchow :
Hey so I cant.
2026-04-27 05:23:49
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hobiandanchor
Hobi Girl :
This is the image I have saved for when I need to remember to not pay OCD any mind lol
2026-04-02 18:28:31
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nattybic
Nattybic :
I started telling myself “that’s none of my business” it does work
2026-04-02 15:52:30
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lilydoyle25
lily :
my new affirmation is “i’m choosing not to figure that out right now”
2026-04-05 14:19:05
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