I’m a therapist, but I truly believe you cannot understand how being in this type of relationship impacts someone until you’ve done it. It’s very difficult to put into words. Worst thing I’ve ever been through!!!
2026-04-01 23:29:12
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Pamelahaha :
Oh my goodness. I haven't seen you around in a while. I hope all is well!
2026-04-03 13:00:07
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☆ BHOLLEY ☆ :
Went through this in a 12-year marriage and only left when my body literally shut down and began having recurrent panic attacks and was confused about my reality and identity after being completely shut off for years. Even after leaving she made my life hell, under constant attack while trying to heal. That was 3 years ago, healed a lot, but still convinced I suffered permanent brain damage. Her voice would still immediately take me back there. Hard to explain, just absolute hell. It’s validating and healing in a way to hear you speak out about it although I’m sad that you or anyone else ever had to go through it.
2026-04-20 13:01:43
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plum :
i saw your comment on the post about the women pdf and knew you were brilliant, just to find a goldmine of an account that finally helps me understand myself, despite sometimes it feeling invasive or mean. i know it's what i need to hear, and see how my behaviors and beliefs present in the universal reality, not just my perspective. thank you so much❤️. also, i saw a post about you going from intense dv relationships, to avoidant relationships. do you think it's a sign of healing when an anxious moves from someone dangerous, to desiring unavailable partners because you're hyper-vigilant about imminent danger?
2026-04-01 19:50:31
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MaMaD :
My ex husband was like this… 😳 I’m a fantastic cook. Everyone says it it runs in the family I’d cook wonderful meals and they were”decent” 😳 😡 and always with the put downs and making you feel bad about yourself and what you like 😭
2026-04-03 12:15:41
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Fadia Abu Samra :
❤️
2026-04-01 20:26:39
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