malaplavusica2 :
We were close for 11 years, and that’s exactly why I ignored what was obvious for far too long. Over time, the friendship became unhealthy ,constant competition, passive-aggressive behavior, and ongoing analysis of me and my life. One small mistake was enough to be brought up and used against me for months.
That year 2024) was difficult for me, and that’s when I finally opened my eyes. I started realizing that I had to watch what I say, what I do, and how I behave, because everything was filtered and later turned against me. That’s where I clearly saw jealousy and bad intentions ,something that has nothing to do with genuine friendship.
Gossiping about others was constant, and over time it became obvious that the same was being done about me. That alone told me everything I needed to know.
I reached a point where the friendship was draining me ,after every meeting I needed days to recover, and before that I had to mentally prepare myself. That’s not normal, and it’s not something I want in my life.
So I chose to step away without explanations. I entered 2025 without that friendship, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I’ve made. 🔥💪
2026-04-04 10:15:32