@brejonalyse: romantic AND financially responsible?? we love a man with a plan I know how hard it can be to date in a big city but it’s not only about what you see online with fancy restaurants. It’s also about finding moments to connect with someone to see how intentional they are with the time they spend with you. I remember our first date and how intentional he was with everything he planned. That’s what really caught my attention. The first thing he said when we got to the restaurant was, “I know you mentioned you’re lactose intolerant so in case you don’t love this spot I made a second reservation”… It wasn’t that he covered the bill, it was that he had ME covered from the very beginning. I stopped looking at the what and I started measuring the why. Financial alignment is absolutely important but emotional alignment can be the thing that builds something real. @KutanaKreates