@ask_julia: If you’re a woman in Bergen County, New Jersey trying to meet high-value men without going to bars… this is exactly where you should be looking. I’m breaking down the smartest, most underrated places to meet quality men in NJ; from charity events and golf outings to upscale gyms, networking events, and everyday spots that actually attract successful, emotionally stable men. Because the truth is… the right man isn’t hiding in a club. He’s building, working, improving—and if you know where to look in Bergen County and North Jersey, you’ll start seeing him everywhere. Follow for dating advice for women in New Jersey who are done wasting time and ready to attract better. #bergencounty #newjersey #Nor#NorthJerseyt#DatingAdviceForWomenghValueWoman
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Thursday 02 April 2026 20:07:29 GMT
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Anita and Daisy :
But I can’t afford a country club :( I’m in college
2026-04-05 16:06:32
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BlessedBea :
I went solo to see a band at a country club. I met a man there who introduced me to his single friend who is now my current boyfriend 💕
2026-04-03 00:46:38
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hey stalker :
expensive gyms!!
2026-04-07 11:25:29
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Callmeclass :
Let me go get a job at a golf club
2026-04-04 14:47:59
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Shay 💕 :
Random coffee shops outside of pricey apartment complex and hotels, golf clubs, business events 😁
2026-04-08 01:24:21
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morningstar33033 :
flight attendant in first class !
2026-04-08 21:29:00
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Cindy Lou :
Stay single it is peaceful
2026-05-31 22:27:23
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Avec_classe :
Yep, I signed up for a golf clinic. The trainer was very well connected with NJ golf clubs.
2026-04-03 18:49:38
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o.m.g.jen :
My issue is that I need help understanding how to act like I belong there. My mother never taught me how to have manners or be polite or etiquette. I certainly never went to cotillion. It was only a few years ago (I’m 35 btw) that I realized I was socially awkward. It would explain why people who treat me differently. But I recently learned how to be more likeable and I think that is what got me the job where I’m working.
2026-05-26 03:05:28
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Julesjem :
part 2😊
2026-05-16 23:09:27
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Kimmy :
First of all, how much does it cost to get into a country club sounds expensive. I don’t think i will be meeting somebody at the gate. 🤣🤪😅😁🤣🤪
2026-04-14 01:22:02
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JC :
Yes
2026-04-07 14:57:56
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KIA :
NYC?
2026-04-12 03:25:28
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Tootie25💋 :
Part 2
2026-05-19 20:33:58
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Gigi :
Part 2
2026-05-03 16:08:42
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E :
Yes
2026-04-07 15:10:42
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Lynnesphere :
PART 2!!!!!
2026-05-15 22:03:59
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M :
Yes
2026-05-13 05:08:59
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thedejababe2 :
Yes
2026-05-14 02:11:23
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Zulma Rosibel :
part 2 please
thank you
2026-04-13 00:13:03
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Lanorris, GA/SC Realtor 🔑💛 :
I need 1!!!
2026-05-11 01:26:42
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Mindfully Me by Dorien :
Part 2
2026-04-12 08:03:16
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Cris Tine :
Wish i wasn’t such an introvert
2026-04-05 22:53:14
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Big V :
I need part 2!
2026-05-06 03:28:15
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habibimami_ :
Girl part 2 please lol
2026-04-14 15:08:03
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