@ask_julia: If you’re a woman in Bergen County, New Jersey trying to meet high-value men without going to bars… this is exactly where you should be looking. I’m breaking down the smartest, most underrated places to meet quality men in NJ; from charity events and golf outings to upscale gyms, networking events, and everyday spots that actually attract successful, emotionally stable men. Because the truth is… the right man isn’t hiding in a club. He’s building, working, improving—and if you know where to look in Bergen County and North Jersey, you’ll start seeing him everywhere. Follow for dating advice for women in New Jersey who are done wasting time and ready to attract better. #bergencounty #newjersey #Nor#NorthJerseyt#DatingAdviceForWomenghValueWoman

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anitaanddaisy
Anita and Daisy :
But I can’t afford a country club :( I’m in college
2026-04-05 16:06:32
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blessedbetsy
BlessedBea :
I went solo to see a band at a country club. I met a man there who introduced me to his single friend who is now my current boyfriend 💕
2026-04-03 00:46:38
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user7923520542599
hey stalker :
expensive gyms!!
2026-04-07 11:25:29
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classisthename
Callmeclass :
Let me go get a job at a golf club
2026-04-04 14:47:59
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keepingupwithyou4
Shay 💕 :
Random coffee shops outside of pricey apartment complex and hotels, golf clubs, business events 😁
2026-04-08 01:24:21
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morningstar33033
morningstar33033 :
flight attendant in first class !
2026-04-08 21:29:00
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cindylouwhoooooooooooo
Cindy Lou :
Stay single it is peaceful
2026-05-31 22:27:23
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avec_classe
Avec_classe :
Yep, I signed up for a golf clinic. The trainer was very well connected with NJ golf clubs.
2026-04-03 18:49:38
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o.m.g.jen
o.m.g.jen :
My issue is that I need help understanding how to act like I belong there. My mother never taught me how to have manners or be polite or etiquette. I certainly never went to cotillion. It was only a few years ago (I’m 35 btw) that I realized I was socially awkward. It would explain why people who treat me differently. But I recently learned how to be more likeable and I think that is what got me the job where I’m working.
2026-05-26 03:05:28
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julielewis016
Julesjem :
part 2😊
2026-05-16 23:09:27
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kimmcfadden2
Kimmy :
First of all, how much does it cost to get into a country club sounds expensive. I don’t think i will be meeting somebody at the gate. 🤣🤪😅😁🤣🤪
2026-04-14 01:22:02
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jc50751
JC :
Yes
2026-04-07 14:57:56
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ra.kia0
KIA :
NYC?
2026-04-12 03:25:28
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tootie2544
Tootie25💋 :
Part 2
2026-05-19 20:33:58
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ginawhiters
Gigi :
Part 2
2026-05-03 16:08:42
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everything.by.evelyn
E :
Yes
2026-04-07 15:10:42
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thelynnesphere
Lynnesphere :
PART 2!!!!!
2026-05-15 22:03:59
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m1881971
M :
Yes
2026-05-13 05:08:59
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thedejababe2
thedejababe2 :
Yes
2026-05-14 02:11:23
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zulma_guzman
Zulma Rosibel :
part 2 please thank you
2026-04-13 00:13:03
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lanorrisfinehomes
Lanorris, GA/SC Realtor 🔑💛 :
I need 1!!!
2026-05-11 01:26:42
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dorienjaeger
Mindfully Me by Dorien :
Part 2
2026-04-12 08:03:16
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msoptimistic85
Cris Tine :
Wish i wasn’t such an introvert
2026-04-05 22:53:14
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pinkstar683
Big V :
I need part 2!
2026-05-06 03:28:15
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habibimami_
habibimami_ :
Girl part 2 please lol
2026-04-14 15:08:03
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