@ask_julia: If you’re a woman in Bergen County, New Jersey trying to meet high-value men without going to bars… this is exactly where you should be looking. I’m breaking down the smartest, most underrated places to meet quality men in NJ; from charity events and golf outings to upscale gyms, networking events, and everyday spots that actually attract successful, emotionally stable men. Because the truth is… the right man isn’t hiding in a club. He’s building, working, improving—and if you know where to look in Bergen County and North Jersey, you’ll start seeing him everywhere. Follow for dating advice for women in New Jersey who are done wasting time and ready to attract better. #bergencounty #newjersey #Nor#NorthJerseyt#DatingAdviceForWomenghValueWoman
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Thursday 02 April 2026 20:07:29 GMT
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hey stalker :
expensive gyms!!
2026-04-07 11:25:29
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BetsyBangles :
I went solo to see a band at a country club. I met a man there who introduced me to his single friend who is now my current boyfriend 💕
2026-04-03 00:46:38
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The Kingdom Financeer :
I live in Italy so how do I get in
2026-06-20 14:54:05
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Callmeclass :
Let me go get a job at a golf club
2026-04-04 14:47:59
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Anita and Daisy :
But I can’t afford a country club :( I’m in college
2026-04-05 16:06:32
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VHScool :
My problem is I don’t have girl friends to go to these clubs with. And I can’t afford to go on my own. And it’s weird to go alone.
2026-04-04 01:49:01
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Shay 💕 :
Random coffee shops outside of pricey apartment complex and hotels, golf clubs, business events 😁
2026-04-08 01:24:21
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morningstar33033 :
flight attendant in first class !
2026-04-08 21:29:00
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Just a delight ☀️ :
I met my guy at Home Depot! He was looking at every single piece of lumber trying to find the best ones. He said he was remodeling his house. I needed new wood for my horse stall door. We got to chatting and ran into each other again a few weeks later and I gave him my number. We became friends for about 6 months and then started dating.
2026-04-18 12:46:47
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Avec_classe :
Yep, I signed up for a golf clinic. The trainer was very well connected with NJ golf clubs.
2026-04-03 18:49:38
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ZYAN YARA :
I need to stay on this algorithm 😳
2026-04-07 02:41:55
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Danielle Lynn :
Your stunning first off! I can’t afford it!
2026-04-03 10:08:45
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Cris Tine :
Wish i wasn’t such an introvert
2026-04-05 22:53:14
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Jamiluur :
Go anywhere from 4pm -7pm latest.
2026-04-07 04:04:52
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Bettina Ribbuns :
Country clubs are expensive 🥺
2026-04-07 00:00:53
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Roberto Burgos :
I own a Medical Device company for hospitals. And she’s 💯 % correct. A lot of us travel and are on the go, so we are in different cities / states a lot. I met a lot of my successful friends in conferences and charity work giving back to our communities.
2026-05-13 06:29:38
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maryameshaii :
My watching this to network for job opportunities
2026-04-28 05:48:47
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Anna S :
But I live in Europe
2026-04-08 20:05:24
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amandawww.tiktok.comcha0 :
Go to vintage cars auction
2026-04-20 04:26:32
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Brevyy :
Commenting to stay on this algorithm 🤣
2026-05-06 12:22:32
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V 🤍 :
Honestly my father Jesus is looking out for me and knows what I deserve. I’ll do what I have to and he will do what he has to. Amen 🤗
2026-04-20 09:40:53
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J :
Your hair looks great!
2026-04-02 23:51:14
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Katherine Hernandez :
I just joined a country club 👏🏽👏🏽
2026-05-09 00:45:10
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Bhhgrll :
Mine was at a tea house or the golf/tennis club. Also visit places surrounding expensive apartment buildings 😅
2026-05-24 23:08:26
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Grace hair oil :
That’s true , it’s my brother am soo proud of him!
2026-05-15 18:12:33
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