also trying to develop your team but know they have no options for promotion and even if they do well you only have a small pool of money to distribute between them for bonus and raises and youre not allowed to give them exceeds expectations.
2026-05-03 10:21:24
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Paco Martinez :
Sadly the solution is this. Remove the emotion. Document everything. Do not fall into the “work family” culture. Take acting and public speaking classes. Fill your cup outside of your work.
2026-04-09 21:54:59
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Angela :
“Absorbing everyone else’s feelings all day long while no one cares about mine”💯!!!!
2026-04-05 21:16:27
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Katie :
I'm went through this 6 months ago...my feedback was labeled as toxic and was brought to HR. 5 weeks of hell to end up with it being completely unfounded but no consequences to the direct report, instead I'm told to walk on eggshells. Where is my help??
2026-04-03 13:03:26
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EmilyD :
also being chronically understaffed and not allow to fill open positions which means the staff are overworked & burnout too, and that overflows to you as the manager! taking on extra tasks because we dont have the staff adds to all of this 😭
2026-04-04 17:00:18
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whitmarie8712 :
I’m a corporate trainer and tysm for this level of honesty. You gave me great ideas for a project I’m working on!
2026-04-03 11:00:28
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Terranova :
As a leader, I felt this in my soul. Thank you for verbalizing this. I’ll add to the loneliness thing – some of us are in leadership positions were literally not allowed to even be friends with other peers because we have to be the role models for everyone. And because we work so many hours, there’s no time for friends or things outside of work… I am the emotional sponge and buffer for everyone and everyone asks me for advice or expects me to know what to do – other leaders included – and I don’t have anybody I can talk to. I don’t have a single friend at work or outside of work. Add to that view exhaustion of always having 1 million things to do and everybody saying everything is the priority – I’ve just given up trying to have any sort of control over my work, my career, my life. I’m just trying to get through every day without making anyone mad enough that my job will be in Jeopardy.
2026-04-03 18:28:26
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D$ 🍉 :
heavy on accidentally letting your real self slip out 🥲 I just found out there is no safe person to be myself with 🙃
2026-04-04 15:22:31
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Sarah Jean :
Holy shit - every single word is exactly how I feel…..
2026-04-03 16:40:51
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Ugly Crayon :
I'm a HR professional... I can't repost, but just know I was here. 😂😭
2026-04-16 21:23:08
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Ashley :
Also, I have no power but somehow I’m responsible for the outcome of every possible thing
2026-04-18 15:02:58
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David :
I started to tell the truth in meetings to bosses above and people below ... the environment became hellish ... and I quit
2026-04-27 14:38:07
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A.R. In AR :
Did I write this?
2026-04-25 21:02:52
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Smilealot66 :
OMG!!!!! My whole dissertation 😁
2026-04-03 12:26:30
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Mandi Cagle :
middle management is the HARDEST
2026-04-09 01:59:17
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LyssG :
I had no idea we worked together.
2026-04-08 22:36:52
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Suzie Stevens :
Wow! I’ve never had a single original experience in my life. It’s like you live in my brain
2026-05-04 10:07:50
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One happy day :
You absolutely nail middle management role. Corporate “ take ownership… lead… build your team the way you want… just within all these rules, guidelines exactly the way we tell you… not the way you see that would work”.
2026-04-24 14:18:23
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leeyahjogo :
I’ve never felt so seen in my life
2026-04-09 15:00:09
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katebehavior :
Wow. Nailed exactly what it feels like to be a manager. This was my exact daily life. Especially when it comes to trying to give feedback and also my honest opinion about people above me.
2026-04-17 17:53:06
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HappiestDugong :
eh, putting the blame on the team primarily is pretty iffy. usually it's the system that is super shitty and geared towards grinding down middle management
2026-04-27 05:04:28
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Amanda Warren Kuhn :
Only thing you missed is that this same person would never have actually pressed submit on a zero star review of the training 😭😳
2026-04-03 16:37:48
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Itxaso D :
My line manager is pais 4* my salary. I empathise with her, but… I also work much more than her and still I’m subject to incredible pressure because I’m the one delivering most, so it’s not only about ‘vilanising’ and people should also understand that. Hope it gets better!
2026-04-27 03:59:28
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Crayon Connoisseur :
You don’t need burnout training, you need leadership training to fix those
2026-04-06 15:49:00
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