my avoidant bf left me yesterday and said “you deserve better.” but why couldn’t he be the better I deserved?
2026-04-05 21:20:07
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dxjzieknnrxi :
i wonder, can a relationship like this work, long term? im afraid of him leaving bc im too much to deal with. i want him to care as much as me, communicate and share as much as me. i hate silence so much it eats me alive but if i don’t let him be silent, is that gonna eat him alive? what can i do, what do i do? i don’t want to annoy him i don’t want the relationship to be a burden but i cant deal with it i need to talk i need to talk all the damn time what’s wrong with me someone help PLEASE
2026-04-08 01:21:08
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Jobi🤍 :
“Anxious attachment” and it’s literally just prioritizing communication and not running away from conflict
2026-04-21 07:07:00
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hannah vianey :
THIS! My bf and I are the same — and he always tells me, “ thanks for always staying and being patient.” A lot of the time they have never had someone who has stayed and were patient. And I’ve never had anyone who has made me feel safe, and he has. Love is all all about learning and growing. He’s become so much better at communicating. And I’ve gotten so much better at controlling my mind!
2026-04-04 18:14:16
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v ⭐️ :
except he didn’t stay
2026-04-04 11:40:19
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szardoni1 :
it’s exhausting but the right one will want to work it out
2026-04-05 23:07:26
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avital <3 💌 :
me and my ex. still doing everything i can to get over him.
2026-04-04 17:01:55
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✨️ :
I feel like in every relationship the one who loves most has an anxious attachment 🤷♀️
2026-04-04 21:23:58
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Elizabeth :
this is exactly how me n my now ex are..and i js want him back
2026-04-14 21:59:50
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with love, a :
i don’t wanna be in this kind of relationship anymore, it was exhausting and i lost myself and sense during it
2026-04-14 09:41:37
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charlotte⭐️ :
i just can’t deal with the anxiety in my chest anymore. i keep spiraling in my head and it‘s eating me up.
2026-04-11 19:10:15
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giulia メ𝟶 :
i miss him so much guys
2026-04-05 10:40:23
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bxllamavie :
Doesnt work if only one tries tho
2026-04-09 19:08:41
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Em :
This was exactly me and my ex. And to people who say “this looks exhausting” it was, but you can make it through it both people just have to want to. He didn’t want to. I did. And that’s okay.
2026-04-05 03:43:30
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defne :
wait delete this
2026-04-05 17:12:40
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ℳℴℴ𝓃 :
us but we are working it out so beautifully🥹
2026-04-04 21:02:58
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hiddenheart :
from experience, it doesn’t work
2026-04-07 10:19:31
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🌞𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 ⁴ :
and to make things worse we are long distance 🤗🥲
2026-05-10 06:35:13
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𝒩 :
Yeah this was me and my ex..
2026-04-04 16:44:43
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ela? :
am I the only one that thinks that with a little bit understanding on both sides this can be easily solved?
2026-04-05 13:57:38
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